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Quoting The Doctor:" Federal law says.... 6 weeks with disability, 12 weeks total, so it would be 6 weeks unpaid (except ... [snip!] ... months). Hmm. Isn't that everywhere?? I thought that was the federal law.. required to hold it for 12 weeks. Look it up for CA!"

Hmmm I must research it!!

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Hmmm I must research it!!"

http://www.employmentlawhq.com/

Try that little questionaire... from what I've read on the gov. site it seems pretty accurate.

Quoting The Doctor:" http://www.employmentlawhq.com/ Try that little questionaire... from what I've read on the gov. site it seems pretty accurate."

Sweet!   Thanks!!

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Sweet!   Thanks!!"

<3

Quoting The Doctor:" <3"

FML. This is unpaid leave?  

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" FML. This is unpaid leave?  "

6 weeks with disability, but 12 weeks they are required to hold your position for you. That's why I'm weighing the 6 vs. 12... and wondering how other folks worked it. <3

Quoting laura+2:" I caught up but didn't reply to everyone   takes forever on my phone... So I had my first appt yesterday. ... [snip!] ... The NP that I saw yesterday said I should get it, but I haven't had one in at least 10 years. I really don't want to get it."

How far along did they measure you at?

Quoting The Doctor:" 6 weeks with disability, but 12 weeks they are required to hold your position for you. That's why I'm weighing the 6 vs. 12... and wondering how other folks worked it. <3"

I would prolly do 6 weeks and then my parents watch him for a few weeks. My dad will be retired by then  

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Allie™Jude♪:</b>" How far along did they measure you at?"</blockquote>



She said somewhere around 5 weeks. I should be 6 weeks today, according to LMP. They didn't give me a different DD.

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" I would prolly do 6 weeks and then my parents watch him for a few weeks. My dad will be retired by then  "

Ugh, I'm so jealous.   I am not looking forward to putting baby in daycare... but depending how BF's job goes... we may be able to do just part time.  

Quoting The Doctor:" Ugh, I'm so jealous.   I am not looking forward to putting baby in daycare... but depending how BF's job goes... we may be able to do just part time.  "

Yeah that's what I am hoping for if anything as well. My son's day care provider is already so excited about this little bean something tells me she will beg me to leave him with her every once in awhile even tho she doesn't take infants.

So far today, I've had MS, a nose bleed, a migraine, plus I'm light headed. Ohhhh my gosh.

Quoting jazzzzz*:" So far today, I've had MS, a nose bleed, a migraine, plus I'm light headed. Ohhhh my gosh."

Ahhhhhh!!! Crackers & water/juice!

Quoting jazzzzz*:" So far today, I've had MS, a nose bleed, a migraine, plus I'm light headed. Ohhhh my gosh."

I know how you feel on the MS. I had it all night last night   hope you feel better

Quoting BαƚMαɳ:" Yeah that's what I am hoping for if anything as well. My son's day care provider is already so excited ... [snip!] ... little bean something tells me she will beg me to leave him with her every once in awhile even tho she doesn't take infants."

That's awesome! DD goes to a preschool with multiple classrooms, and they have a baby room.... but ugggghh.

It sucks because I'm the main source of income, so it's not like I can find a job at different hours than BF to supplement the income without having to do preschool/daycare.

Sigh. Well, we'll figure something out! Maybe I'll look for an in home daycare for baby, and see about getting Ayanna into a pre-k, now that she'll be age eligible.