Quoting S U Z I E:" I would not put him on the birth certificate, that's for sure! If you did, that would give him automatic rights to visitation...did you?"
No, the father is not on the birth certificate nor has he ever seen him. It's his mother, father, step mom and aunt im ripping my hair out over.
I also promised the father I wouldn't bug him over DS, but the family never stops bugging him and talking smack to him saying he "needs to man up" otherwise they're going to disown him (like his aunt didnt let him go to the whole family get-together thanksgiving dinner) i could give 10 smurfs less about the dads involvement and have no problems doing it on my own. I feel bad because I promised him.