Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:" You are NOT wrong. Almost the same damn things happened to me last year. MIL insisted LB was weak and ... [snip!] ... because my milk wasn't enough. In reality, she was just pissed because she couldn't help feed him since he was EBF. "
Thank you! She is such a martyr sometimes...she keeps asking DH, "are you mad at me?" despite him telling her no, which is irritating him to no end. So she told FIL that he was mad at her for offering to help.
Also, DH isn't comfortable with her taking the baby at night because she takes pain meds (I'm not sure what exactly) and they make her a little loopy. I've seen her after she takes them, she looks stoned. But he won't say that to her...he just tells her our baby, our responsibility.