Quoting Lizplustwo:" Mine knew my feelings on abortion before we ever got pregnant...I'd always told him that I personally ... [snip!] ... I told him my body, my choice, and that he could deal with it however he wished. He chose to have nothing to do with our son."
That's smurffy on his part. I mean he chose to stick it in without making sure he was covered. I hate when men can decide just because they're not ready to be a dad they can just not participate but sometimes turn around and make 1 or more with someone else and be a father. That just pisses me off. But you did the right thing. Children are a blessing. I wouldn't trade my kids for any man.