Quoting Amber; ღ:" Be fully prepared to take care of a kid if he happens to get someone pregnant. I do understand what ... [snip!] ... the baby is born and then wants nothing to do with the baby and gives up his rights to not pay CS. How smurfed would that be?!"
Meh. I would never want to force someone to father my child. I'd rather them not be there. Then again, I wouldn't bring a child into this world knowing that I couldn't take care of it alone, if need be. I'd abort. A dude not wanting a child doesn't make him any less of a man. He should have that right, just like women do.
If a dude doesn't want to pay CS then *shrug*. He doesn't deserve to be in the child's life then. Like I said earlier, giving up your rights doesn't always exempt someone from paying CS. There are plenty of dad's out there that are paying CS for children they do not have rights to.
And I don't understand why anyone is assuming that he didn't take the precautions necessary to avoid pregnancy. He could have used a condom. We all know BC is not 100%. So yes, he could have been proactive about preventing a pregnancy but he should still be forced to parent and financially provide when the girl has options? So fair.