Quoting Raωkeℓ:" I disagree. You learn the true character of someone when things get rough. She's running to another ... [snip!] ... know. I think I hold issues like this close to me because I've had friends go through this and see the effect it was on them."
Yes, and I agree that her actions are entirely wrong and disrespectful to her husband and her committment. She is going about this the wrong way.
I've been cheated on, I know it sucks, and I know it must be amplified by a zillion if you are far away from home and in dangerous situations.
I am not at all justifying her actions. But I do not think that she can be labled as a horrible person based on her being tempted to cheat and justifying it in her mind when her relationship is going downhill and she feels its ending.
I agree that she needs to just grab some balls and tell her husband it's over before she sleeps with someone else. But I do not think that cheating in itself makes anyone a horrible person. It's sad that your friends have had girlfriends or wives cheat on them, and it hurts no matter what your career is. But we have not been in those relationships, and don't know how the two people deal with each other. I just feel like it's an unfair judgement to make.... not that I agree with her actions. haha