Vent.

I am feeling seriously upset tonight. Back story- I am 28 weeks pregnant with my SO's second child(IUD baby.)

I didn't ask for/want anything for myself for Christmas, I think Christmas is more for kids so the day came and went with my SO constantly picking on me. He finally decides to come up to bed at 4 AM, and I was laying here restless and unable to sleep. He hopped in bed and started talking to me about Lost, Okay cool. After our convo was over I told him while I was SCRUBBING the bathroom down, I noticed some black mold on the bottom of our bath mat and told him I found a new one that was cheap I wanted. Hr yelled at me and told me he didn't have the money for that smurf, So I told him if he would stop buying cigarettes for himself every other smurfing day in 2 days he would have enough to buy the damn bath mat... He got mad at me, told me how pathetic I was and how embarrassed he was of me and went downstairs. Wow.

Wow smurf alert. Seems BG is full of posts about selfish men today.

Quoting The Master:" Wow smurf alert. Seems BG is full of posts about selfish men today."

I seriously feel like screaming and making him leave. I didn't say anything at all hurtful to him and yet he is mad at me... Such bull crap.

He sounds like a short-tempered bully. He must have some other extremely admirable qualities for you to stick around and be treated that way.

Quoting Alissa McKeighan:" He sounds like a short-tempered bully. He must have some other extremely admirable qualities for you to stick around and be treated that way."

right!
OP don't let him treat you like that

Damn, what a dick.
I don't think I could handle someone spending that much on cigarettes. Let's say a pack is like, 6-7 bucks. He's spending almost $100 a month.
Ah gawd no.. that sucks...and his attitude towards you telling him of something essential is smurfing ridiculous.

my ex was the exact same thats why he is now my ex ,he to came to bed and had a go at me one night after a few cans ,he also spends a fortune on his fags yet nothing towards the house or kids ,this night tho i was 3 months pregnant and he was so angry he had me by the throat ,next morning all his bags were packed and havnt seen him since i am now 17 weeks and happier alone x

Sounds like my SO. He got me 25 gift card for Christmas   Oh and yesterday was my birthday and he got me a card and then complained because it was 5 dollars. We arent even that broke but whatever I am over it because my son had a great Christmas