Scared to get prenant because the fear of getting morning si
posted 26th Dec
Hi everyone! So... My husband and I have been married for 6 year. We have a 3 year old and I have a 15 year old from my previous marriage. He has no other children from past relationships. Well since our 3 year old turned 1 he's been wanting another child. The topic dies down for a while but lately he's been bringing it up more and we even get into arguments. I would like 1 more but I'm so scared to conceive all because I'm terrified to get morning sickness again! With my first I never had it, in fact it was the dream pregnancy. But my 2nd , while I never actually threw up, I was in a state of nausea all day in my first trimester. Bad nausea and I have a huge fear of throwing up. So my question for you ladies is has any of you let the fear of possibly getting morning sickness stop you from having another?
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I have vomiting. Its gross, and I hate how I feel during and afterwards. I had nausea with the girls, but I never vomited either. It was really worth it though. I would do it over and over again if I could. If you want another baby, I'd work through the nausea because babies are totally worth every second of it
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It never stopped me and i have had HG all three pregnancies, this pregnancy i have thrown up everyday for the past 9 weeks. Just remember its not forever and eventually it passes
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never stopped me and i was deathly sick with my first. but with this last one i got it at the end. i just got meds to make it go away.
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Iowaposted 26th Dec
You ladies are so right. I try and think of that how it's very much worth it in the end but geez I'm letting this fear control me! LOL. I know once I'm older I will have regret knowing I didn't have one more. I'm hoping ill get over the fear =)
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Plus I should add that I am already 33 so the clock is a tickin LOL. But anytime I have nausea I literally have panic attacks and cry LOL
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I had HG with my 1st and had a huge fear of getting pregnant again and experiencing the same thing.
When I found out I was pregnant again I cried and started shaking from how scared I was of getting HG again. I got it shortly after and it was even worst this time.
Its worth it in the end but I'm getting my tubes tide after this one lol
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Spainposted 26th Dec
I had morning sickness with both of my Boys... BAD! My 1st it didn't go away till I was 7 months and with my 2nd it never went away until I delievered him. It sucked. but my boys were worth it and I would do it again!
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<blockquote><b>Quoting fashionista♥ 23wks:</b>" I had HG with my 1st and had a huge fear of getting pregnant again and experiencing the same thing. ... [snip!] ... got it shortly after and it was even worst this time. Its worth it in the end but I'm getting my tubes tide after this one lol"</blockquote>
My HG is worse this time too and its definitely made me decide im not having more but 3 is good for us anyway
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<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs Somerhalder:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting fashionista♥ 23wks:</b>" I had HG with my 1st and had ... [snip!] ... My HG is worse this time too and its definitely made me decide im not having more but 3 is good for us anyway"</blockquote>
3 is perfect! I would have another one but again .. I just can't couldnt handle it once more. Not to mention my insurance only covered so much so I ended up paying around 4k in medical bills from having HG this time. I hope you start feeling better soon. <3 I know it's hard
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Spainposted 26th Dec
I honestly think morning sickness is one of the least awful things about pregnancy, and I've been so sick both times I lost 15-20 lbs in the first trimester. And I still throw up a few times a week and I'm almost.24w!
It's worth it for the end result, so...eh.
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My oldest made me sick every day of the entire 36 weeks I was pregnant with her. And to top that off, I had pt labor from 22 weeks on and on bed rest. I was effing miserable. When DH started talking about #2 I thought he had lost his mind. I finally caved, and my pregnancy was soooo easy. Except he shifted my hips so badly they've never been the same. However, I had another one. And though I threw up less than I did with my oldest, I couldn't take more than 3 bites of anything before gagging. In fact, I went into delivery at 165 pounds, I started my pregnancy at 167. And I am willingly trying to have another. The end result is so much worth it, I never remember how badly I hated the annoying crap until I actually think about it. Pregnancy is amazing. But it has it's icky moments, however it's all worth it to me.
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