TTC any tips

Been awhile since I been on here been crazy moving around and getting out of school. Me and the hubby have finally made the decisions that we are ready to TTC and I want any tips that can be helpful. I have a step daughter that is almost 6 in 3 months and then a son (he was a complete accident) who is almost 4 now. We wanted to wait till he was in school and potty trained. He can start next year and we feel now is the time to try for another. We new when we got together we wanted 3-4. We ARE now ready to try for baby number 3 so any tips out there as I have been trying for several months(5 1/2 months) now and just not having any luck so wanted to ask for any tips maybe I am missing something as like I said my first son was a complete accident and took us by surprise. I thought this would be a lot easier. LOL Thanks for any tips ladies.

It's much easier to get pregnant by accident than when you're actually trying. I wish I had some advice, but it all comes down to luck. Best wishes!

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" It's much easier to get pregnant by accident than when you're actually trying. I wish I had some advice, but it all comes down to luck. Best wishes!"

Thank you so much. I have noticed that and its just like grrr I mean it was so quick the first time.

Have lots of enjoyable sex....  

Just try but not try?

It will happen eventually  

goodluck  

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" It's much easier to get pregnant by accident than when you're actually trying. I wish I had some advice, but it all comes down to luck. Best wishes!"

amen sister. ain't that the truth D:

Quoting Baby Love.:" Have lots of enjoyable sex....  "

This has not been the issue I swear its like every other day and im just like how am I not yet. What am I missing here My first we only had sex 3 time in one month and used condoms and then boom Baby. I wish it was this easy the 2nd go around.

Quoting Sharissa Cox:" This has not been the issue I swear its like every other day and im just like how am I not yet. What ... [snip!] ... My first we only had sex 3 time in one month and used condoms and then boom Baby. I wish it was this easy the 2nd go around. "

it's only like a 20% chance that you get pregnant each month   It took me 11 months and a m/c to get pregnant..

There's a lubricant called preseed that you can try. Also, it sounds wierd but prop your butt up with a pillow for a little while afterwards to help the swimmers get there. I did that with both pregnancies and I got pregnant the second month we tried both times.

Quoting Baby Love.:" Have lots of enjoyable sex....  "

If only that's all it took, lol.

Quoting katxo:" it's only like a 20% chance that you get pregnant each month   It took me 11 months and a m/c to get pregnant.."

  Well I have my fingers crossed and toes crossed. The hubby keeps telling me its because I want a baby.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>" If only that's all it took, lol."</blockquote>



Haha right? We made sure he didn't cum at all before we had sex, and stopped after he did (I always go before him/at the same time).... I was on clomid/mucincex and tons of vitamins.... And we had sex EVERY day/tracked/cut down caffeine. It was a lot.

Quoting martinez♥:" There's a lubricant called preseed that you can try. Also, it sounds wierd but prop your butt up with ... [snip!] ... to help the swimmers get there. I did that with both pregnancies and I got pregnant the second month we tried both times."

My mom told me this so I have been trying just maybe fingers crossed.

Quoting martinez♥:" There's a lubricant called preseed that you can try. Also, it sounds wierd but prop your butt up with ... [snip!] ... to help the swimmers get there. I did that with both pregnancies and I got pregnant the second month we tried both times."

My mom told me this so I have been trying just maybe fingers crossed.

I know the feeling. Me and my hubby tried for about 7 months with no success and once we decided we really weren't ready for a baby we stopped trying. We really just had sex every other night thinking by not having sex so much it would decrease our chances of pregnancy. Well within 2 cycles I was pregnant. We mc in December of last year and have been tryinge since. Still no luck. I've actually finally gotten to where I feel ovulation pain again when I didn't the past
few months. I had surgery in August on my right ovary for a cyst and I think it messed me up for a couple of months. The only thing I can suggest is have sex maybe every other night or every night if you know hubby has good sperm quantity and quality. My hubby just started taking flintstone vitamins lol. We're hoping that is all he will need to help those boogers get stronger and faster. I don't know what has changed from the first time we got preggo til now though. I have 2 children already. They are 13 and 5. They are really far apart and I'm hoping it's not like that this time around. I want my last baby before I'm 30. Well at least be preggo with the last before I'm 30.