re: anal sex.!!

we have 3 times in 10 years lol. first time sucked. he couldnt even get in before i told him to pull out. the other 2 times were better but still hurt like a bitch

Once and it sucked. My SO loves it but my butt is an exit only from now on

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama2WinterGirls:</b>" Once and it sucked. My SO loves it but my butt is an exit only from now on"</blockquote>




That's what I say!!!!!

We have done it on a number of times.
You do need to be relaxed and really in the mood for it to go as smoothly as possible and to actually enjoy it.
It is really enjoyable, but it's something that you have to ease into. Then once it's in, you just gotta bang that smurf....no pun intended lol

Tried it a few times, liked it, but for some reason haven't done it again since   Dunno, didn't want to do it while pregnant and now we don't have time for sex   haven't figured out a balance yet lol

Been with my so for almost 6yrs and tried it twice .. Mood, relaxing, LUBE, & a vibrator should do the trick ... First time suuuuucckkedd especially the day after O_o the second time was ok but still painful

I've tried it with a few of my ex's but could never let them go that long. My current boyfriend is the first guy who didn't just jam it in there and go at it carelessly. We've done it twice, and it's somewhat enjoyable, but it's not my favorite. He keeps wanting to do it again and I keep telling him that since I won't be able to have sex for 6 weeks once I give birth, i'll let him try it that way if it doesn't hurt too much. We'll see...

The first couple times you should get a butt plug or anal beads to help loosen up first with lots of lube, just make sure not to get the hot sensation lube though lol it burns like a bitch. I used to do it constantly with my ex since that was the only thing that made him happy and each time i started to really hate it because that was the first thing he would go to, I was never able to really enjoy it. my husband now knows what to do in order for me to enjoy in even without lube so we have started to do it on a regular basis now

Tried it once, hated it! Never again.

In my experience, it's best to start with other foreplay or even basic sex and then transition into it .. Don't overthink it cause then you'll tense up. We use lube as well. Certain positions make it easier to relax so it won't feel any friction or resistance.