Quoting Monkey Nuts:" In terms of you moving.. Do you have a contract with them? Or is it all just verbal? I know things are ... [snip!] ... if something happene your be out tree unemployed and alone. Also taking your daughter away from her dad isn't the best idea."
It is all verbal right now because no definite decision has been made either way.
I agree, the relationship we have right now with him is the best it's been in a while. Does this mean he's accessing visitation? No. Calling her and seeming eager to talk? Yes. That's a big step and I'd hate to push it back any more.
On the other hand, this could be an amazing opportunity for our life and they want to put me in a place and help me finish college with her/ take turns doing pre-k drop off and babysit so I can have study time. Which is more help than I'd ever receive staying here and trying to graduate.