Im smurfing done.

Im sure my relationship is over.
Its me that wants it to end.
He is so self centered. Yesterday and today were my last straw.
All he could think about is going to go get smurf to smoke and run off last night. Which he did when we got home at 10 last night. And today while the girls were opening gift, he left in the middle of it to go get high. Then fell asleep for half the day, woke up and left with his smurfing friend. He has showed me where he stands. Icant take it anymore.

I dont want no half ass father for my girls. I dont want someone who.is so selfish. I hate him, I plan on leaving this week. Id leave today but it snowed. Texans dont travel well in snow.

Good for you!!! I am here if you need to talk to someone.

  sorry to here, but honestly if all he cares about is going and getting high, on Christmas? that's seriously low. I suggest leaving ASAP.

If he cant give a smurf on Christmas he probably never will.

I'm sorry to ear that mama   I have lots of respect for you for actually deciding you're gonna leave.

Ya that sux.. but ya probably never gonna change... mine is just getting merry Christmas texts from about 10 girls he has slept with before me. During me and who knows.. sees nothing wrong with it sitting here with his wife and 2 sons . Seriously. ..

Ive been with him for almost 7 years.
I hate that ive been telling him all this smurf and he doesnt even try.
He just stands there and goes "quit trippin you aint leaving." But I as m, im just so done

<blockquote><b>Quoting AuntyTiTi:</b>"   sorry to here, but honestly if all he cares about is going and getting high, on Christmas? that's ... [snip!] ... on Christmas? that's seriously low. I suggest leaving ASAP. If he cant give a smurf on Christmas he probably never will. "</blockquote>

I agree!!

Im sorry to hear that your going through that I know its hard I left my baby's sperm donor a few months ago. Keep in mind your doing whats best for your kids. Im sure you do not want him to be the example for your children and take the chance that they follow him in his footsteps. These days if it ever got reported about him doing drugs and being around the kids DHS/CPS will get involved and their is always a chance that they can take them in their custody you never know. The decision you are making is a very motherly decision so do not feel guilty about it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bailee & Delilah's Mommy:</b>" Im sure my relationship is over. Its me that wants it to end. He is so self centered. Yesterday and ... [snip!] ... who.is so selfish. I hate him, I plan on leaving this week. Id leave today but it snowed. Texans dont travel well in snow."</blockquote>




I just came through duncanville ( we live in Arlington) and the roads arent horrible but I definitely wouldn't be one them if you didnt have to be.

I'm sorry your going through this though  

I'm glad you have the strength to leave him. Good luck and I wish you the best.

<blockquote><b>Quoting sillygirltracyb 12/25:</b>" Ya that sux.. but ya probably never gonna change... mine is just getting merry Christmas texts from about ... [snip!] ... with before me. During me and who knows.. sees nothing wrong with it sitting here with his wife and 2 sons . Seriously. .."</blockquote>




Lol... a lot of my exs have texted me today, 2 of his called him... I think its nice they thought of us  

Anyways OP, good for you, if u need anything I'm here...

<blockquote><b>Quoting DeanJade&Maksims Momma:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting sillygirltracyb 12/25:</b>" Ya that sux.. but ya probably never ... [snip!] ... 2 of his called him... I think its nice they thought of us   Anyways OP, good for you, if u need anything I'm here..."</blockquote>




Well he pretty much beat it into my head before we were dating that it was disrespectful when I still talked to people. Funny now that we r married he still feels a need to talk to them.. and no I dont think thats all he would do if given the opportunity. I think if a relationship is secure and there is mutual respect then its not necessarily a problem . However when there are issues its deceptive and to me when u r married and cheat or in a relationship and cheat its disrespectful bc hes throwing it back in my face. If he cheated once w them..both parties would do it again. So when I say exes. I dont mean ex before me necessarily

Well im going to have to live with my mom, she lives in arlington. So im just going to wait till he goes to class on friday so he wont be here. Ive told him all this stuff and nothing. Just nothing. Im trying of what to text my mom and I cant think of anything. It sucks im unloading all this on her on christmas.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Bailee & Delilah's Mommy:</b>" Well im going to have to live with my mom, she lives in arlington. So im just going to wait till he goes ... [snip!] ... nothing. Im trying of what to text my mom and I cant think of anything. It sucks im unloading all this on her on christmas."</blockquote>




Ur her daughter, she will prob be relieved if she knows what u have been dealing with, christmas or not...