Thanks a lot smurf

I should have known he would do his best to ruin christmas for me and my kids. His kids called their mom and told her what a horrible person I am, you know since a 7 & 10 year old are too young to not smear smurf on my bathroom walls or clean their room.... Or any of the things my 2 & 3 year old toddlers know better than. So now I am the bad guy... Like seriously dude you gave their mom over 400 bucks and she still couldnt get them smurf, she is being the bitch but it is my fault. Screw it I am glad his horrible kids are back with their mom and I hope he goes too. They messed up furniture, the walls, stole the baby and toddlers food, coloring books and crayons. They snuck my sodas on top of him giving them soda and junk whenever. They would tell me smurf you fat ass or my mom is going to kick your ass... But according to him they are perfect angels.... His 10 year old hit my 2 year old.and the 7 year old woud cry and whine if the kids came near him. I wish I never signed a lease with this smurf, since he doesnt want smurf to do with our son or his first christmas...

ugh   that is smurfing horrific. I hope you are able to get rid of his ass quickly and efficiently without too much trouble   they belong together for sure

Are you guys married or just in a relationship? His children sound like little demons.

I'm sorry you have to go through that, but did you not know his kids where like that before you guys got more serious?

Quoting Jas ♥:" Are you guys married or just in a relationship? His children sound like little demons."

Kids like that arent demons because they just want to be... its because of the parents they have. So either your SO needs to buck up and actually parent his children, and tell his ex how to be a good Mom, or leave. But its not their fault their parents are pieces of smurf. And if your SO is letting his kids go wild and call you fatass and smurf... then yes, he IS a piece of smurf for not being a good parent.

Quoting FroggysMommy:" Kids like that arent demons because they just want to be... its because of the parents they have. So ... [snip!] ... SO is letting his kids go wild and call you fatass and smurf... then yes, he IS a piece of smurf for not being a good parent."

I have to agree!

Kids need to be parented by BOTH parents.

Quoting FroggysMommy:" Kids like that arent demons because they just want to be... its because of the parents they have. So ... [snip!] ... SO is letting his kids go wild and call you fatass and smurf... then yes, he IS a piece of smurf for not being a good parent."

Not really. Some kids are just smurfs and it has nothing to do with their parents. Depending on their ages, it can have a lot to do with the kids they go to school with.

In this case, it seems like a lack of parenting. Lack of parenting isn't always the issue.

No I had no clue what they were like, she refused to let me meet them until right after our son was born. And they were here this summer but a week after school started she tried to burn her moms house down and went to jail for a couple months. They were hella bad then but when she got out smurf really hit the fan.
Neither one parents or consistently disciplines and they let them run wild. The 7year old cannot read, write, or tie his own shoes and refuses to learn. It sickens me.