Im really unsure of what 2 do

Im currently 5weeks pregnant with my 3rd child. Im 23yrs old before any one wants to judge Im also married. this pregnancy came as a shock I wasnt expecting to get pregnant again. Ive always been the type of person that would of never thought abortion would be an option but my husband has made his oppinion clear he wants me to termenate my pregnancy and I dont really know what I feel im so scared things r really rough right now he got laid off an were check to check i get some of the points he makes but he doesnt understand that even thinking about abortion makes me feel like a monster. Im really afaid either way i decide our marraige wont survive. Help me ladies what to ! Im soo lost. An heartbroken.

don't do anything you are not comfortable with doing... Sorry mommas. I'm not much help today

I don't really have any advice, but I wish you the best. It is a tough decision but you should do what is best for you and your family. Look at all options before making a decision.

I am 19, making my 3rd baby - also married. Luckily my husband wanted to keep this baby right off the bat but it was me who contemplated it, I know I couldn't do it though but life with three will be harder! If I were you I'd go with what you want and try to talk about why with your husband. And see if he goes for keeping the baby or whichever route you choose

If you have doubts, take a step back and think about it. Abortion does not make you a monster, but if you are pressured into it, you may regret it.

Let me start by saying I am pro-choice. I believe women have every right to decide whether they want to keep a baby or not.

That being said I think you should do what YOU are comfortable with. Your husbands opinion matters, but ultimately it's YOUR choice and YOUR body. Don't do anything you'll regret.

You need to think really hard about what is best for you and your existing family. How would another baby impact the quality of life for your two existing children. And I don't just mean financially but also shared time, opportunities, and the relationship between you and their father. I was surprised to find out that we were expecting our third as well. Abortion was absolutely an option when we found out and if we werent as financially sound as we are and if we both didn't agree we were mentally and emotionally ready for this baby, abortion would have been the answer for us. No matter how hard it would have been for me, if it's what's best for my two existing children and my marriage, it would be worth it to me. If I get pregnant again after this baby, abortion will be my only option. My exisiting family is the most important thing to me. Ultimately it's your body and your choice entirely but info think you need to consider how another child right would impact the lives of the other people involved. Good luck to you.

Having an abortion solely because finances are tight now is, IMO, a permanent solution to a temporary problem. I'm sorry to hear that your husband was laid off- I know from experience how tough that is. However, he will find another job sooner or later, and it very well could be better than the one he lost. If you choose abortion now, how will you feel when things are back on track? I never intended to have four children and things were VERY grim looking when we discovered we were expecting #4. However, we chose to keep the pregnancy and I'm so glad we did! It is amazing how much things have changed for the better since this time last year. Not to mention, my baby girl has brought SO much joy to our family. Please think long and hard before deciding on abortion. No matter what the future brings, you can't take it back. Good luck!

Thank you ladies for all your advice after alot of thought I decided I couldnt go threw with an abortion I talked to my husband and explained what I know it would do to me. He's worried but I know we can do it. Plus things R looking up for the better his old boss called him late last night and told him he starts back at work as of the 1st of the year. He works in the oilfields. So well be just fine with baby #3. far as equal time spent Ive learned from past experiance growing up. I made a promise to myself my children will always have equal amounts of time spent with thier dad and I. thank u again. Im glad I followed my instincts.

I hope everything works out. Good luck!