Thanks!

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Why don't you two just have sex?

Quoting I'm Marbles:" Why don't you two just have sex?"

meow.

Quoting I'm Marbles:" Why don't you two just have sex?"

lol.... 

I hated cords! LOATHED them! Invest in a rechargeable battery kit.   I bought some recently from here:
http://www.slumberparties.com/

This is my favorite one...

http://www.slumberparties.com/Checkout/productdetail.aspx?ID=2252

Yes, it's expensive.. but Sooo Oh worth it.   But anything "rabbit" like are always Heaven! Happy shopping!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Cap'n Obvious:</b>" *sigh* It's been a very weird and rocky time.. I had a mc of twins not that long ago. He's finally sleeping in bed with me, but he's still pretty distant. Therapy is really helping, though."</blockquote>




I think you need to just have sex with him. Honestly it makes you closer you need to rekindle that fire girl.


If I had suggestions for toys I would give them but I don't. Lol

quack.

Quoting ★311161.69★:" I hated cords! LOATHED them! Invest in a rechargeable battery kit.   I bought some recently from ... [snip!] ... Yes, it's expensive.. but Sooo Oh worth it.   But anything "rabbit" like are always Heaven! Happy shopping!"

That looks like fun! I thought about maybe a g-spot vibe? I've never owned/used a dildo before, so I'm a newbie.  

Quoting Cap'n Obvious:" I have tried so hard. It's getting better, but it's been difficult. I've even tried blowing him.. He's ... [snip!] ... him.. He's just not... saluting.. if you catch my drift. It's totally an emotional thing. He doesn't have a medical problem."

Men tend to either deal with situations by extraverting or inverting, and it obviously seems like he's inverting. I think you're doing the right thing by being understanding and going to therapy with one another. Hang in there!

chirp.

Quoting Cap'n Obvious:" That looks like fun! I thought about maybe a g-spot vibe? I've never owned/used a dildo before, so I'm a newbie.  "

Ehh, the G-Spot ones don't look enjoyable to me. They're hard plastic and look painfully uncomfortable. But you may like it. The only toys I like are the ones with clit stimulation. I couldn't get off with just penetration with something like a dildo for standard vib. dildo.

Quoting Cap'n Obvious:" *sigh* It's been a very weird and rocky time.. I had a mc of twins not that long ago. He's finally sleeping in bed with me, but he's still pretty distant. Therapy is really helping, though."

 

I'm sorry to hear that.

No tips here, I'm not really a sex toy kinda girl.. although maybe you need a little bit of intimacy just the two of you. You never know, it could help!

Quoting ★311161.69★:" Ehh, the G-Spot ones don't look enjoyable to me. They're hard plastic and look painfully uncomfortable. ... [snip!] ... the ones with clit stimulation. I couldn't get off with just penetration with something like a dildo for standard vib. dildo."

I'm not sure about 'em either. I really need both to get off (well, I can with only clit stim, but not easily and it takes a long time). I don't really know what I need. I feel like an idiot looking through all these and not really knowing what I need or what I'll like yet... I guess it's kind of trial and error..? hahah.

Wahl massager you can probably pick one up from Walgreens right now bc the holidays. I saw one at Sallys beauty shop/salon idk what its called but ive seen it cheaper on ebay. Its powerful I have to use a blanket as a barrier to defuse the power no vag penetration can be done with it tho. I know there are some toys with cord but my mind is drawing a blank right now

Quoting Legendary Amanda:"   I'm sorry to hear that. No tips here, I'm not really a sex toy kinda girl.. although maybe you need a little bit of intimacy just the two of you. You never know, it could help!"

It's slowly getting better. And when we have/had sex in the past, he loved using toys on me, so maybe it'd be a push in the right direction?   I don't know.