Quoting Smokey_Taboo:" Do you think he is being even more secretive because you are prying a little bit? "
Quoting Red Bottom:" Technology has turned you into a crazy person. If you can't trust a man with his own phone and his own ... [snip!] ... on his own, leave him. But you don't need to be teaching him how to make them. You're not his mother so don't act like it."
Quoting Loka Lokita:" I agree, but like I mentioned before, I think his definition of appropriate is much different than mine. ... [snip!] ... than mine. I just can't stand the stressful feeling of worrying all the time. Especially since he isn't home right now."
Quoting Red Bottom:" Don't look for something you don't want to find. You're getting upset at him for having a passcode on ... [snip!] ... from the past issues you've worked through), you're the one invading his privacy, and I doubt that's helping the situation. "
Quoting Loka Lokita:" I think the bigger part of the issue is that my son's dad cheated on me with prostitutes while I was ... [snip!] ... just be Facebook and weird bad feelings but it goes deeper than that for me. I just don't think I am ready for a relationship."#1 go to therapy and work on whatever you need to work on to stop blaming future people for past issues.
Quoting Red Bottom:" #1 go to therapy and work on whatever you need to work on to stop blaming future people for past issues. ... [snip!] ... trust because you're embarrassed to be a single mom of 3.....you got pregnant 3 times....it's reality, take it or leave it."