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Don't let it slide he lied if he said he was going to work and he didn't.

I would be open with him an let him know that you really need him now. You just had a baby and you want him by your side. Hope everythng gets better for you.

If you want him home, then tell him.

Quoting Mj's Crazy Mama♥:" Don't let it slide he lied if he said he was going to work and he didn't."

Oh, I forgot to add about that... he was going to take someones shift, but the guy changed his mind or something... It happens a lot there.

I'd be pissed and upset! You JUST had a c section..he should be helping!

I'm sorry.

I would say something because if I don't I am just resentful and eventually it comes out anyway and it is worse. I'm sorry mama I can not imagine how hurt you feel. I see the conflict in not wanting to feel like your making him but that he wants to be there. I would tell him though because it's your family, you guys should be number one now and he needs to see that.

You said that you know that if you ask him to, he'll come home. So ask him to.

Men can be douches sometimes.

I would ask him to come home.

Quoting Single_Mama:" I would be open with him an let him know that you really need him now. You just had a baby and you want him by your side. Hope everythng gets better for you."

 
After I had DD, when DH was at work I would cry all day because I just felt so alone without him there even though I wasn't alone because I had DD. I didn't say anything to DH about it then because I didn't think he would even care, but a couple months later I brought it up and he truly felt bad that he was not there with me when I needed him. Speak up, let him know you want him home. Sometimes men really don't know any thing at all unless you tell them, I've come to realize that. Hope things get better for you though, I know it sucks.

I would ask him to come home. Especially cuz i think i remember you saying money isnt even an issue. You need help and he obviously needs it spelled out for him. A c section, newborn and a sick child on top of PPD.... you dont need that stress right now.

Thanks ladies. I'm glad I'm not over reacting on this! haha. I'm going to call him and ask him to come home first thing tomorrow morning. It's too late now.   No buses except one that costs double the norm!

and his phone is either dead or off....

Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" and his phone is either dead or off.... "

 
Maybe it will be back on after while.

sometimes men need to feel ''needed'' just like us women at times need to feel ''wanted''. Calling him his the right move. If u didnt make a fuss about him having to leave in the first place then he might feel like u dont care that he had to be away from the family. Everytime my dh has to go out of towne for work , i make sure i make a big deal about how much i will miss him and wish he didnt have to go (even if secretly , i am glad for the little break). It boosts his ego and makes him want to finish his work as quickly as he camn to get back home to us.