I regret my abortion :(

It happened on the 7th of this month. I completely regret it, I tried so hard to act like I didn't regret it. My husband never wanted it done, but said he did because he thought I wanted it.
I just want to go back and never had made this horrible mistake. I want my baby back! I want my marriage happy again, I ruined it all.

Quoting His Wife (CMD):" It happened on the 7th of this month. I completely regret it, I tried so hard to act like I didn't regret ... [snip!] ... to go back and never had made this horrible mistake. I want my baby back! I want my marriage happy again, I ruined it all. "

Hugs!
Sorry mama!  

I'm sorry ): I went through something similar. I didn't have regrets, but my husband did. It got better with time if that's any consolation at all.

You didn't ruin it. Please know that you made the best decision for you and your family at the time and move on the best you can.

Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" Hugs! Sorry mama!   "

I want to go back in time & never have thought of it... it was beyond against everything i believe in.

Hugs Hun!
I'm sorry

I'm sorry you're dealing with this, I believe everything happens for a reason and you'll get past this. Try counseling? Best of luck.

I'm sorry. I hope you can make peace with your choice. You were doing what you thought was best.

I'm sorry  

May I ask what made you decide to have the abortion in the first place?

Was your marriage perfect with no problems before this happened?

Are you both going to counseling? Because it is strongly advised when going through such a life changing thing to get some perspective and help from a professional third party.

I hope you are both able to heal and cope soon <3

I had an abortion this year too. My first and last. I wasn't in a relationship, and it involved domestic violence and death threats. I felt like a piece of smurf and wanted nothing but to hold my baby. I cried for weeks. The horomones are crazy after the procedure. What helped me get through it was a lot of Baby Gaga posts, and reminding myself of what my reasoning was for getting an abortion. I know now that it was the safest choice for me and my baby. I still cry sometimes. PM me if you want to talk further. You will make it mama, I'm sorry you're sad.

I'm sorry hun, you made the best decision you could at the time.
You have time to grieve and have another child if you choose too.
Don't hate yourself.

I know how you feel <3 <3 <3

I am fighting my feelings I regret both my abortions in my heart, although in my head I know I did the "right"/logical thing.

part of me hates my husband too because if he had been neutral I would never have had an abortion. I love him so much though I hate that part of me hates him :'(

I wish I could erase the memories, it's gonna be hard to move on  

I understand what you are going through I'm here if you need to talk xxxx

i am not goin to lie it took me 3yrs to get over the loss of my baby but i know what i did was right. i was 17 at the time living wit my father and found out i was preg at 8wks. I was terrified cuz my father was abusive and things weren't good at home. but i knew abortion was the safest for me and my child due to the abuse i was already dealing with. i wasnt afraid i was goin to get killed or anything like that but i did foresee the abuse getn worse during or after the preg. and more so i was terrified something would happen to my baby because of him. I also grew up in not the best of conditions (not sayin my life was horrible but it was hard) I didnt want my child to grow the way i had at the time with struggling and seeing alot of fighting. all in all i know it is very hard to deal with making a hard choice like that but everything is done for a reason and it will get better i promise this even though it doesnt seem that way right now. alot of what ur feeling is the left over hormones. I do feel for you sweety and i am sorry you had to bare the loss. I recommend seeing a counselor to help. that is something i wish i had done at the time when i made my choice.