the last thing i wanted to hear

I've been considering abortion..and I'm currently trying to figure out how to pay for it.
Please refer to my previous post with the story please, I'm too stressed to write it all out.

But I'm asking my dad (who's never been around) to possibly help with the cost..and he says to me "please don't kill your baby, God will be upset with you if you do"

I'm as aware as I can be of the consequences without doing it. But honestly, everyone in my life is trying to steer me away. I know what's best for my family, and myself. I can't stand everyone trying to change my mind and feel worse about it.

I'm so sorry. I hope you can find a way to do what is best for you and your family, I wish you the best.

I just had an abortion November 19th, and i heard that smurf from SO's mom too. It was so annoying... And she still talks about it.

I wouldn't talk to them about it unless you absolutely HAVE to. You need support right now.

I'm sorry. I wish you the best

Also, do what YOU think you have to do... Dont let anyone push you.. Its a hard one to make but only you know whats best for you. Good luck and im here if you need to talk.

I'm so sorry. How much is it where you live?

Quoting bbbt:" I'm so sorry. How much is it where you live? "

They told me anywhere from 3 to 5 hundred. I'm a single mom, I can't afford that.

Im sorry. I wish you the best in your decision.

I know that planned parenthood has a no or low cost for those that cannot afford the couple hundred dollars it costs... Can you get to them and see if you can get one there?

I'm sorry you're having to go through all of this <3

Have you considered the national abortion... something or other hotline? I'm sorry that's not much help but if you have a clinic in mind, they probably have the info. It is a number you call, and you have to be on it because it's always busy, but they help provide funding. I'm sorry you got a dickhead response like that when you asked for help. Stay strong.

I'm so sorry hun   You don't deserve to be put down for your choice. Hopefully you can come up with the cost and just get it over with.
Don't let them get you down about it. If it's what's best for you and your family then then it's what you have to do.
Good luck with everything hunny.

Quoting lyss&levi+1:" They told me anywhere from 3 to 5 hundred. I'm a single mom, I can't afford that."

Are you 18? Is there any way you could go to a Cash Advance? I would normally never recommend that place to anyone but it will be cheaper than another baby in the long run.

Quoting lyss&levi+1:" They told me anywhere from 3 to 5 hundred. I'm a single mom, I can't afford that."

I have heard that some places offer the service free of charge, I dont know if there would be a free clinic like that in your area though. Have you seen if anywhere offers a sliding scale for charging?

I'm so sorry you had to hear that  

I have had 2 abortions (while on BC) and both times I have had a family member try to talk me out of it. I know it's not easy, but only you know what is best for you and your family. I wish you the best in whatever you decide.