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Christmas is still 2 days away, how do you know he doesnt have something put away for you?

i didn't get anything at all.
my SO has a huge family, he's one of 6. so, as you can imagine, there are QUITE a few nieces / nephews / cousins / brothers / sisters
i think all the nephews and nieces got something, i didn't get jack smurf
he makes really beautiful graphic art, so i asked him to make me a piece, at a cost of $0.0
did i get that? nope.

I'd be insulted and hurt as well..

<blockquote><b>Quoting IDID-VBAC 12/09:</b>" Christmas is still 2 days away, how do you know he doesnt have something put away for you? "</blockquote>



Because i've been with him when he went shopping.

<blockquote><b>Quoting regina_margot:</b>" i didn't get anything at all. my SO has a huge family, he's one of 6. so, as you can imagine, there are ... [snip!] ... jack smurf he makes really beautiful graphic art, so i asked him to make me a piece, at a cost of $0.0 did i get that? nope."</blockquote>


Awh ..  

Yeah that seems odd to me. My SO isn't going to get me anything this year, either for Christmas. I told him I'd give him my 50 from my mom and he could combine it with his 50 to make 100 and he didn't reject it. My dad always gets me something nice and SO wasn't going to get anything from family so I gave him my 50 from my mom.

i wouldn't be hurt til AFTER christmas... maybe he's holding something back to see how butthurt you get seeing you got something used and his family didn't, to see if you're a materialistic person? I wouldn't get hurt over it until AFTER the holidays

Quoting Venus Penis Trap.™:" <blockquote><b>Quoting IDID-VBAC 12/09:</b>" Christmas is still 2 days away, how do ... [snip!] ... you know he doesnt have something put away for you? "</blockquote> Because i've been with him when he went shopping."

whos to say he didn't go while at work? guys can be sneaky... not usually.. but they can be

<blockquote><b>Quoting Venus Penis Trap.™:</b>" First of all, I am NOT bitching at all, just venting. SO bought everyone nice expensive things for ... [snip!] ... his family but I am his fiancé of 2 years, don't I deserve something nice too? I guess it's the thought that counts, right? .."</blockquote>




I would be upset. I went shopping for myself fir Christmas. A pair of Jeans, a jacket, a purse, t shirt & slacks all on sale. But I really want a ring tho but we're not able to afford one more maybe for Valentines day  
Dh got some wool socks & perfume.
mostly our money went to dd gifts.

Quoting Mom of 2 Monkeys:" whos to say he didn't go while at work? guys can be sneaky... not usually.. but they can be"

This is what my husband does. We do all of our shopping together but he finds a way to go without me to get me something.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom of 2 Monkeys:</b>" whos to say he didn't go while at work? guys can be sneaky... not usually.. but they can be"</blockquote>

If he left early from work his ass would be fired. They don't even let him off when DS has to go to the doctor.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom of 2 Monkeys:</b>" i wouldn't be hurt til AFTER christmas... maybe he's holding something back to see how butthurt you get ... [snip!] ... used and his family didn't, to see if you're a materialistic person? I wouldn't get hurt over it until AFTER the holidays"</blockquote>




I'm definitely not a materialistic person I haven't even said anything about it to him.

Quoting regina_margot:" i didn't get anything at all. my SO has a huge family, he's one of 6. so, as you can imagine, there are ... [snip!] ... jack smurf he makes really beautiful graphic art, so i asked him to make me a piece, at a cost of $0.0 did i get that? nope."

 
We don't get each other anything for Christmas because we like to focus on our daughter and the kids in the family. It's not a huge deal to me, but if I was in the situation you were in I would be offended.

There's still time before Christmas feel hurt/mad after Christmas if he still didn't get you anything.