Really SO?

I get 3 hours to myself a week. Every Sunday my hubs takes the baby to church so I get time to myself.
Well last week he was in the field (army) so he didnt go and this morning he had a fit because his dog got muddy digging a hole (she does this a lot but he doesn't know because Im always cleaning her up without saying anything) and he didnt feed the baby breakfast. So he storms into our room where Im getting dressed, tosses Liam on the bed and starts ranting. Then refuses to take Liam to church because he hasnt eaten.
So first Im annoyed because he didnt feed the child. Then Im annoyed because he cant handle two simple things I deal with almost every day without having a fit. On top of that I again dont get any alone time because he cant be bothered to bring a snack for Liam to church with them.....
Sometimes I really dont get that man.

i used to say that about my man.. i had my friends mom and sister here due to a house fire, and i was always tired.. but when i asked him to watch her so i can have mommy time he's like when can i get me time since he worked mon- sat sometimes or tues - sat. .. sometimes i think they get their period...

What a bunch if cry babies. I don't think they understand the concept of having children. Tell their lazy asses they are a parent too and don't get to use the "I work " excuse. Smurf that, that pisses me off. If they don't want to give up their free time DON'T HAVE KIDS plain and simple. Jesus !!

Quoting Rydicule91:" What a bunch if cry babies. I don't think they understand the concept of having children. Tell their ... [snip!] ... excuse. Smurf that, that pisses me off. If they don't want to give up their free time DON'T HAVE KIDS plain and simple. Jesus !!"

Amen!!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting *A&N's Mama*:</b>" Amen!!!"</blockquote>




My SO knew right off the bat what I expected and he is doing so great! He helps me and is more than willing to watch LO whenever I need to do something or just need a minute to myself. That's a real man and females shouldn't settle for less!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" What a bunch if cry babies. I don't think they understand the concept of having children. Tell their ... [snip!] ... excuse. Smurf that, that pisses me off. If they don't want to give up their free time DON'T HAVE KIDS plain and simple. Jesus !!"</blockquote>



My hubs is spoiled. Never in the 2.5 years weve been together has he EVER come home to a dirty house. I never complain about everything I do. I cook dinner every night and take care of the babies needs 99% of the time. And Im ok with that. (I also go to school online) But it blows my mind that he cant watch Liam for 2 hours without freaking out....

<blockquote><b>Quoting Liam + 37 weeks!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" What a bunch if cry babies. I don't think they ... [snip!] ... Im ok with that. (I also go to school online) But it blows my mind that he cant watch Liam for 2 hours without freaking out...."</blockquote>




That's just sad. I'm sorry to be blunt. I try to keep up with housework also and I take care of LO about 80% of the time which I'm fine with, since he works full time. I also go to school online but my SO takes the baby when I do homework if its not done before he gets home and he cooks about 30% of the time (warms something up lol) so I think he is doing amazing at knowing its his kid too and I have smurf to do to better out futures. It's like a lot of men and women switched roles. Men get taken care of by women financially more now than ever!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Liam + 37 weeks!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" ... [snip!] ... out futures. It's like a lot of men and women switched roles. Men get taken care of by women financially more now than ever!"</blockquote>




Like I said, I dont mind doing the work. He works for money, I work to keep the house in order. The part I dont understand is why its so hard for him to do what i do occasionally. It legitimately stresses him out and thats what baffles me. Because I dont see it as difficult...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Liam + 37 weeks!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Liam + 37 ... [snip!] ... to do what i do occasionally. It legitimately stresses him out and thats what baffles me. Because I dont see it as difficult..."</blockquote>




Selfishness. I don't understand why he wouldn't do it happily, it's his kid too you would think he would like spending time with the baby. Idk maybe he just feels like he doesn't know what to do and gets frustrated

<blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Liam + 37 weeks!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" ... [snip!] ... think he would like spending time with the baby. Idk maybe he just feels like he doesn't know what to do and gets frustrated"</blockquote>



He LOVES playing with Liam he gets frustrated when theres something that needs to be done though.

Quoting Liam + 37 weeks!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Rydicule91:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Liam + 37 ... [snip!] ... He LOVES playing with Liam he gets frustrated when theres something that needs to be done though."

Hahaha yeah he likes the fun part about it but not the dirty work huh? Smurfin men