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Do I tell my husband?

posted 22nd Dec
So my husband is over at the neighbors house and they are all drinking.. I am sitting here at the house and the neighbor walks in saying they sent him for ice. I go to the kitchen to get it and he follows, suddenly he grabs me and kisses me. I know hes drunk so I didnt make a scene, I just pushed him away and said, "Ok its time for you to leave." and I walked to the door. He says, "Im sorry Jess please dont be mad at me." So I said I wasnt mad but he needed to leave. He then asked well, what about that? I asked what and he proceded to grab my crotch.... I understand that they are all drinking, I do.. But, I mean he is supposed to be my husbands friend and I am friends with his wife... Do I say anything or just let it go so as not to ruin the friendship? I mean he probably wont remember it tomorrow...? I just dont know what I should do.... HELP!!
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I have 2 kids & live in Starke, Florida
posted 22nd Dec
Tell your husband!!!!!!

I would have slapped the smurf out of that guy!
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Canon, Georgia
posted 22nd Dec
I would definitely be telling my husband.
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I have 1 child & live in Costa Rica
posted 22nd Dec
Uhm yeah I would. That was beyond inappropriate, drunk or not.
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I have 2 kids & live in Vantaa, Finland
posted 22nd Dec
i would tell him just incase he remembers tom and beats you to telling him. not that he will but you never know he may try to turn it around on you .
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I have 1 child & live in Pomeroy, Ohio
posted 22nd Dec
If it was a drunken kiss I might not
But a crotch grab? Smurf that
Tell your husband
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I have 1 child & live in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
posted 22nd Dec
I would wait until he was sober, then tell your husband.

I wouldn't want to do it when they are all loaded.
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I'm due December 28th, have 1 child & live in Ontario
posted 22nd Dec
Quoting Minion:" Tell your husband!!!!!! I would have slapped the smurf out of that guy!"



Honestly, I felt like it but Im kind of scared of him...

Hes really big and his wife says he gets mean when he drinks whisky...
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Starke, Florida
posted 22nd Dec
No reason NOT to tell your husband, IMO. You did nothing wrong, and hiding it might insinuate that you enjoyed it, and therefore feel a reason to hide it from him.
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I have 1 child & live in Delaware
posted 22nd Dec
Tell him immediately (well, when he's sober). Otherwise the friend may take it as a sign its okay and keep doing it. Then if your DH finds out later, he might think you let the guy do it.

I know it's tough bc they're friends, but your marriage is more important than their friendship.
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I have 1 child & live in Mississippi
posted 22nd Dec
Tell. Drinking can release your inhabitions, but it doesn't give an excuse for that. You're probably not the first girl he's tried it with either, and apparantly he needs to learn to drink less.
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I have 2 kids & live in Edmonton, Alberta
posted 22nd Dec
Quoting A&J. ♥:" If it was a drunken kiss I might not But a crotch grab? Smurf that Tell your husband"

 
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I have 2 kids & 8 angel babies & live in Climax, Michigan
posted 22nd Dec
Tell him. But tomorrow once he is sober. Lol.
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posted 22nd Dec
I would tell him. That's completely innapropriate drunk or not. Your husband should definitely know cuz you dont want him trying smurf again.
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I have 2 kids & live in Michigan
posted 22nd Dec
Definitely tell! If he does remember and it comes up later, and your husband finds out? Bad move... it's going to look like you're hiding something. Tell, tell,tell!
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I'm TTC since August '12, have 1 child & live in St Louis, Missouri
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