Quoting The (super kinky) Master:" Now before I start I want people to understand that in my country I can't just go and purchase a wedding ... [snip!] ... and asking whether he thinks it would be best for us to break up so that he can find someone willing to make these sacrifices."
Honestly, I am very pro marriage. I think that it's what you do when you love someone, (calm down people, I know that's not the case but when people are together for a long time and not married, I always just assume they aren't stable. I'm working on it)
But, I would never, ever, ever suggest that you put your college, children, or even something your kids want over a wedding. That's silly, I'm not doubting your commitment to your SO, it's not like you have to sacrifice your education or it's over. It's not over it's just not like.. sealed? For lack of a better word.
No smurf that, you just keep doing what your doing until you have EXTRA money, it doesn't mean you're doubting a damn thing.