First time mommy & im getting wierd feelings. someone help.

WELLLLL.... Since me being a first time mom, im scared and also.. i read so much on this pregnancy but its kinda hard because everybody is different and my doctor just tell me to relax its nothing lol. But she doesnt inform me more about what im feeling. Plus Its kinda hard to explain it.
The other night i was in the kitchen and all of a sudden my stomach hardened and my back and my stomach got really sharp pains, like my butt was going to explode. Baby Daddy informed me that its gas.. It turned out i had to go to the bathroom really bad, but the pains enabled me and first thought was omg and i ok? Then early lastnite my stomach hardened and right under neath my ribs started hurting but it only lasted like a minute not even. Buttt.. Lastnite laying in bed at like 12:00 a.m. it felt like something was getting really to crawl out of my vagina. It felt like a little fast wierd swirl making its way out. Sorry to put it that way but i cant really explain it. Im scared something is going to happen where im going into labor or need to go to the hospital and im not going to know what to do or what to look for and a specific feeling. Because my doctor does not inform me lol!! Plus im almost 31 weeks. Anybody with any advice what i need to watch for, or why im feeling these wierd things and what they are lol.

Yeah, I had all of those wierd feelings too! And they only get stronger...I don't know exactly what they are, but nothing has fallen out yet. The tightening is probably BH getting stronger...and the down below pressure is probably baby getting into position. I remember being really scared the first time I felt all of those things too...but now it is just a way of life for me! I only have 4 weeks left!

Quoting Kel-1st time MOMMY:“ WELLLLL.... Since me being a first time mom, im scared and also.. i read so much on this pregnancy but ... [snip!] ... almost 31 weeks. Anybody with any advice what i need to watch for, or why im feeling these wierd things and what they are lol.”

i'd say if you doctor doesn't inform you...i'd ask questions...always ask questions..no matter how big or small...wether you think it's stupid or not...there is nothing wrong with asking them...and if she doesn't get you an answer...keep asking someone til you get the answer..the stomach tighting sounds like a BH contraction.....sometimes i would get those and then have to go to the bathroom really bad...but i don't know about the other thing...but trust me you'll know when you're in labor.

You figure your body preps itself a couple of months in advance for delivery...maybe its your baby starting to drop and such....I know you arent due for aonther couple of months, but it is about that time for things to start preparing itself.

thanks girls..   and at first for a while i thought i was depressed because i have a history of my anxiety getting to me too much where i get sick and i thought it may happen again. because like 2 months ago i was not happy! and before i could go any further and explain to her why i was like this she kinda interrupted me and said" i promise you you are not depressed, its your hormones". Believe me.. Im just hopeing my labor is good because next time i have a baby i want another doctor lol. and braxton hicks, they arent that bad.. but watch i just jinxed myself. lol