re: Don't know what to do.

Quoting His Wife (CMD):" I just got an abortion this month. My oldest is 4 and youngest is 7 months. PM me if you wanna talk. I also was so against abortion, but did what was right for myself & family. "

Oh I'm sorry. I keep weighing pros and cons and the few people who know say this is their one exception to being against abortion is me in this situation. But I just want to be able to do it, to have the baby.
Thank you  

Well, I know it is hard, but your life and your current child having a mother is far more important. In a few years when it is safe, you guys can try then and have the baby you were meant to have  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::</b>" Oh I'm sorry. I keep weighing pros and cons and the few people who know say this is their one exception ... [snip!] ... to being against abortion is me in this situation. But I just want to be able to do it, to have the baby. Thank you  "</blockquote>




If you really want it, and want the baby than I'd say do it. If its not 100% that you'll have complication or 100% that you'll die then you have a chance. Plus you can be monitored by your dr. More closely and take it easy.

Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::</b>" I know, I keep telling myself I ... [snip!] ... Thank you"</blockquote> I would talk to your OB (I saw you are going to talk to him) before making any decision"

I will, I'm afraid to even say anything. But he can give me a blood test and probably clear things up. Which will make my mind a lot more at ease.

Quoting Unique Mama:" Well, I know it is hard, but your life and your current child having another is far more important. In a few years when it is safe, you guys can try then and have the baby you were meant to have  "

I know, and I always say I wanted my kids close. Just not THIS close. Lol. But I will have a talk with the OB and see where I stand. Because Aria having Mommy around is very important-I just lost my dad at age 18 and it hurts so bad. I can't imagine losing my mom so young that it's like I never met her.

Quoting Jenna+1:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::</b>" Oh I'm sorry. I keep weighing pros ... [snip!] ... or 100% that you'll die then you have a chance. Plus you can be monitored by your dr. More closely and take it easy."

Thank you   I know my next step is the OB to see the risks laid out for me. Because if it's a great chance this will be harder than the first, I'll have to consider abortion more. But if the chances are I'll just need more monitoring (I already made at least one 6 hour trip a month last time) then I can deal with it. That's not as scary. Besides it'd be a long trip to get an abortion anyway.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jamie & Baby Aria (::</b>" I will, I'm afraid to even say anything. But he can give me a blood test and probably clear things up. Which will make my mind a lot more at ease."</blockquote>




Yea definitely! Good luck.