Quoting ღSheilaღ:" Thank you all for your opinions and comments........I'm just going to focus on me and my kids for right ... [snip!] ... for right now.....if he does whats right then he might be back in the picture but i'm not gonna worry about that right now."
Just remember to stay strong, keep reminding yourself he's NOT being serious about all this right now, and remember that you will always find support on here. If you ever need to talk/ vent whatever without being judged feel free to PM me because I know how hard it is.
And don't ever let him make you feel guilty or like anything is your fault because it's not. It's 100% his fault and the number one thing drug addicts do is turn everything around on everyone but themselves.