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I thought the idea of a three sum would've been great for SO and I. It completely smurfed up our relationship afterwards. I still think about it to this day and it makes me sick.  

I know it's not the same idea but I guess it's similar.

I would be open to it, but that would never fly with DH.

Quoting shelbylynn [25 WEEKS!]:" I thought the idea of a three sum would've been great for SO and I. It completely smurfed up our relationship ... [snip!] ... I still think about it to this day and it makes me sick.   I know it's not the same idea but I guess it's similar."

He suggested a 3some but I wouldn't even go there lol. I've had em before and they're only good if it's 3 single people.

Dh is the first non open relationship I've been in. It's been an adjustment for me. But in the past it's always worked out for me.

I wouldn't do it. DH wouldn't do it, either.I hate the idea of it.

And if your sex drive is that low, there's no reason for you to need to have sex with someone else anyway IMO.

Quoting Supafly★:" I would be open to it, but that would never fly with DH. "

Yeah, I couldn't do that but I'd let him do it. We're super open with each other. I've never been like this sexually with anyone before.

no we haven't. I've talked to DH about it and he doesn't think he will ever want to do something like that. I'm actually very thankful. The only reason I talked to him about it was because I feel it's important to know the person's stance of whom you're married to. And personally, I don't think it's for me either. I don't knock it though, if couples are happy then more power to them.

No. I am married. If we wanted to screw other people, we would get a divorce.

I have suggested it.
SO said it would never happen with his approval.

I was like we could just do something every few years to remind me how much better you are than anyone else. He thinks it would backfire. I told him out of 20 people or whatever, he was the only one that could make me squirt. And that makes him better than anyone.

No, never.

He would never go for it.

Quoting Mayhem.:" I wouldn't do it. DH wouldn't do it, either.I hate the idea of it. And if your sex drive is that low, there's no reason for you to need to have sex with someone else anyway IMO."

I don't want to have sex with anyone else, I told him he could.

Quoting bananapancakes:" He suggested a 3some but I wouldn't even go there lol. I've had em before and they're only good if it's 3 single people."

That's for sure! We were both not in our right minds tho. Something that will NEVER happen again.

Quoting bananapancakes:" Yeah, I couldn't do that but I'd let him do it. We're super open with each other. I've never been like this sexually with anyone before."

I'm 75% sure I'd let him - he already confessed that he has the hots for his 45 year old secretary and I laughed. I really don't think I'd have a problem with it but there are a couple girls that would be off limits.

Quoting Mayhem.:" I wouldn't do it. DH wouldn't do it, either.I hate the idea of it. And if your sex drive is that low, there's no reason for you to need to have sex with someone else anyway IMO."

I agree. If the thought of smurfing someone else turns him on and YOU can't even do that, its time to reevaluate your marriage.