re: Not pleased-BG Secret santa partner flaked-

That is messed up.  

Quoting pilot Jess:" <blockquote><b>Quoting PurpleDurple:</b>" It's a chance we all took when doing it. ... [snip!] ... what do you expect from strangers on the internet   I don't want to be scolded. Though the evidence shows I deserve it."

Don't beat yourself up over it! Nobody knew that could've happened   But I do agree that future Secret Santa's need to be done by established members. Too many people on here are so... anonymous. And can just up and erase everything, and nobody even know who they were. Ugh. This irritates me so bad  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting pilot Jess:</b>" Does anyone know- http://members.baby-gaga.com/member1104417 ... [snip!] ... to, but it's more about the rudeness that stings."</blockquote> What did you give her? That's really stinks  "</blockquote>



She said she liked hello kitty and things she couldn't get at home, so I sent her a handmade change purse and a pen shaped like a dog from a local indie store. And an ass ton of hello kitty stuff, note pads, earrings, stickers, a plush hello kitty doll holding a hamburger that is reversible and turns into a hamburger with hello kitty ears.
I spent way more than I was supposed to but I was having fun. Guess that's what I get for taking the risk.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Spackgirrl:</b>" Exactly. I did it a few years ago and the same thing happend to me. Not even a card  "</blockquote>


  at least send a pM and say "hey I'm
Sorry money it tight. Merry Christmas". Come on.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>"   And especially to just not say anything. Like not even giving you a heads up that maybe they came ... [snip!] ... this past Wednesday because of work. Way past the due date, but my partner understands. That's just very rude of her  "</blockquote>



That's the thing, even if she came back and said that she couldn't send anything because of an emergency or something, I'd be ok with that. But to not say anything is what bothers me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting pilot Jess:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting pilot Jess:</b>" ... [snip!] ... hello kitty ears. I spent way more than I was supposed to but I was having fun. Guess that's what I get for taking the risk."</blockquote>

I do the same thing. Just be proud of yoursel for your generosity. It's the only thing u can control. Don't get down. U did a nice thing. Be proud of yourself.

Quoting pilot Jess:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>"   And especially to just not say anything. Like ... [snip!] ... couldn't send anything because of an emergency or something, I'd be ok with that. But to not say anything is what bothers me."

Right! You're a good person for doing what you did<3 Karma will get her.

Wow, that is really messed up.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" I did a BG gift exchange thing about 4 years ago and sent my package but never received one   I haven't done one since."</blockquote>




That sucks. I was screwed (sort of, or should I say used by) by someone I donated clothes to here before . She was asking for clothes for her baby, I sent her some, then she tried to sell them on BG, then made more posts about how she desperately needed clothes again.
You think I would have learned by now. But there are a lot of really awesome people here too.

I'm very sorry to hear that.  

That's terribly rude.

I'm very sorry to hear that.  

That's terribly rude.

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting pilot Jess:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" ... [snip!] ... of yoursel for your generosity. It's the only thing u can control. Don't get down. U did a nice thing. Be proud of yourself."</blockquote>


 

<blockquote><b>Quoting lolajessup:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting pilot Jess:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gir!:</b>" ... [snip!] ... of yoursel for your generosity. It's the only thing u can control. Don't get down. U did a nice thing. Be proud of yourself."</blockquote>




That's a better outlook. Thanks, made me feel better  .

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Right! You're a good person for doing what you did<3 Karma will get her."</blockquote>




Thanks, karma usually does.

Apparently she had another profile on here before. And I remember that profile. Horrible HORRIBLE person.

Here is her old profile:
http://members.baby-gaga.com/member651456


The only reason I remember her is because she had this on her profile:
"Some things I strongly believe in: - Abortion is murder. If you had an abortion, you don't derserve to be a mother.
- Marriage is between one man & one woman.
- I do not like tree-huggers.
- Teens TTC are idiots.
- Gay couples have no business ttc, adopting or having any children period. Why would you wanna screw up an innocent child's life?
Ok, I'm done now."