Is there anyway to get him help?

My SO has anger problems and he says he's willing to get help so we can be together. Since we've moved out together in October, he's broken 2 tvs and 3 cell phones, killed his xbox and 2 controllers, put 7 holes in the walls and has beat the smurf out of himself so many times. Regardless, he hasn't put his hands on me (this time) or our daughter (ever). I know that doesn't mean he never will. We're both non-spanking but I know he would probably hurt me if it came to it. When we dated in high school he used to push me around a little bit. He has a brain tumor so I feel like Im always using that as an excuse for him. That and all the men in his family are the same way.
But I'm pregnant again and he says he wants to change. I've tried to leave so many times but he keeps pulling me back and ofcourse I want to be a family and have our kids grow up with their father but do you think he can really change?

Quoting Miss-Maia's Mommy:" My SO has anger problems and he says he's willing to get help so we can be together. Since we've moved ... [snip!] ... me back and ofcourse I want to be a family and have our kids grow up with their father but do you think he can really change?"

my uncle used to beat the hell outta my aunt (the cant have kids) but she left him and they got back together and he started to take this class and he is also on meds now and he doesnt beat my aunt anymore.. so yes there is a chance but will only work if he really does wanna change

My uncle (before he died) was a very loving man until he got a brain tumor   as it progressed, even after surgery, he just kept getting more angry/violent.

Quoting Kristin B. +down.40+:" My uncle (before he died) was a very loving man until he got a brain tumor   as it progressed, even after surgery, he just kept getting more angry/violent."

His has been growing since he was about 7 years old is what his paperwork said. I've only know him since we were 13. So he's had anger proplems since we met but he didnt find out about the tumor until just 3 years ago. He's had radiation and surgery already but he hasnt been back to see if it's growing or swelling or anything. He was being prescribed adivan and seizure medication but they made his anger a lot worse.

Yes, it is possible for him to change. But he has to WANT to. I know he says he wants to, and for your sake, I hope he's being honest with you, and with himself. Therapy might help, along with some anger management classes. It's going to be a LOT of hard work for him, and he's gonna need help from you. I think it's honorable that you want to try to stay with him. But if he can't change, then for your sake, and the sake of your children, it might be wise to separate. I hope it doesn't come to that, though.