Knowing what you know now would you still marry dh?

When it says happy now in the poll that is in reference to you being happy enough. Like I love dh I'm happy for the most part but it's not what I dreamed of.

Quoting Just Emily  :" Knowing what you know now would you still marry dh? When it says happy now in the poll that is in reference ... [snip!] ... poll that is in reference to you being happy enough. Like I love dh I'm happy for the most part but it's not what I dreamed of."

Marrying DH is the best thing I've ever done.
Other than have our girls.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:</b>" Marrying DH is the best thing I've ever done. Other than have our girls. "</blockquote>




See I had ds before we were married but sometimes I wonder if I should have kept looking. I love him with all my heart and when things are good they're good but when they're bad it's really bad

I'm still fully legally married to my husband but we've been apart for over a year. Knowing what I know now there's no way in hell I would have married him. It was a waste or money and time. I'm happier with getting a divorce from him than I was marrying him.

My current SO is a different story. I love him so much and know that it will work with him. I can't wait to marry him.

Absolutely not. If i had a doubt in my mind, we wouldn't be married. He has saved me in many ways, I truly believe it. He is the best thing in my life, next to my kids.

If you asked me about a month ago, I would have told you I was unhappy and regretted it. Now I realize that he is really what I want and I wouldn't change it. Marriage is not all butterflies and unicorns like I thought. There are ups and downs. I'm just starting to accept that.

I wouldnt have gotten married if I thought I would be un happy down the road.

We have our ups and downs but nothing that would break us.

i'm not married now...but i would of married my SO 6 years ago when we were 18, and i'd marry him tomorrow if we had the money. he is the best thing that's ever happened to me. he even gave me a wonderful daughter.

Maybe I just have unrealistic expectations

No. I would have insisted on counselling first and would have waited to have the wedding I wanted.

I guess I can't vote then because there isn't an option for me.
For me it is everything I have ever dreamed of.

With my ex husband even though things didn't work out, it lead me to where I am now so I'd still would have married the sob even knowing what I know.

Quoting Just Emily  :" Maybe I just have unrealistic expectations"

I think everyones expectations are different, what may be unrealistic to one, wont be to another.

What do you feel is an unrealistic expectation to your marriage?

we have our ups and downs, it's not my fairy tale marriage but he makes me very happy and honestly I wouldn't have it any other way.

Yes, I would.
I, thankfully, am happy in my marriage but I don't believe that unhappiness is grounds for regretting, or leaving, a marriage.

No way. If i could go back i wouldn't have even showed up for our first date. I'm very unhappy anymore. We been through a lot of ups & downs & we've made it through them but most days i don't even know why I'm still trying.. he's not the guy i married anymore & when i tried to communicate my feelings i was told he has me & doesn't need to try anymore, bad news for him, he's sooooooo close to losing me!

Im in a bad mood tonight :/