re: It pisses me the smurf off when...

People who use their kids in fights.
My soon to be ex SIL is a bitch for that.

Terrible drivers and when my husband refuses to discipline our son then complains that he doesn't mind him.

Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting **milfshake**:</b>" Yeah I agree (you look AMAZING by the way! ... [snip!] ... discipline., my mom comments on it ALL the time. My kid's still well behaved, but her needs and mine have changed. Butt out."

I've grown more patient, and I can usually talk to Gabriel or send him to his room...I try to steer clear of spanking.

And my son lost his dad 6 months ago, and I see how it effects him...I know what my son needs. To have someone tell me different makes me want to stab them with a thick, rusty needle.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:</b>" My kid has hit me ONCE. I lightly grabbed her hand and looked at her and told her not to hit that it's ... [snip!] ... but she's almost two, so it's to be expected. She only does it at home though, never in public or at anyone else's house. "</blockquote>




I think hitting teaches them that violence is ok

Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:" When people tell me my kid is going to be a spoiled brat because we don't spank and she still sleeps in our bed most of the time. And strangers who touch my kid. "

Gabriel is 3 and still sleeps in my bed most nights...

But I don't see him during the day...I work. And if sleeping is the most time I get to spend with him, then so be it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **milfshake**:</b>" I've grown more patient, and I can usually talk to Gabriel or send him to his room...I try to steer ... [snip!] ... him...I know what my son needs. To have someone tell me different makes me want to stab them with a thick, rusty needle."</blockquote>


Yeah, you're really the only one who knows the best way to help him work through a loss like that  

Quoting momma melissa85:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mama♥Sweetpea:</b>" When people tell me my kid is going ... [snip!] ... kick, bite, slap and get.into everything. My baby doesn't do any of that. The first she does is cry or shake her head no."

How old is your LO?

I feel like they all kind of go through that phase...mostly when it comes to someone trying to jack their toys   Like a playmate or something.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ᒎᙓᔓ:</b>" Omg this! I only co-sleep when my husband isn't in the bed (he is scared of co-sleeping with her so ... [snip!] ... stopped even mentioning to people that I do it, it's like every reaction is 'OMG YOU'RE GOING TO KILL YOUR BABY!!' etc... ffs."</blockquote>



Haha I know. People immediately assume the worst is gonna happen. Co sleeping can be done safely, and I will continue to do it for as long as I please. SO and I love the cuddles.
I've just given up talking to people about it. It's such a taboo subject, they either think the whole you're gonna kill your baby or they come out with some smart remark about how you're gonna regret it or have a clingy baby. Actually attacthment parenting has been shown to encourage more independance as they aren't craving the dependancy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. God of Thunder:</b>" Smurfing stupid ass drivers who can't use a smurfing blinker when it's so smurfing close to their fingers.... ... [snip!] ... when they smurfing pull out on front of you when you're RIGHT THERE, then turn two seconds later. I have seriously road rage!"</blockquote>

I know what u mean So hit my moms side mirror today when we were picking up the kids from school. We were parked! I about told that lady off it scared me so bad! Then after that i started having pains at first i thought i was going into labor what it wasnt. Lol crazy drivers

<blockquote><b>Quoting Viv, Ev & Gwen ♥:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Plum flippers:</b>" Pisses me off when people with no children ... [snip!] ... And auto correct."</blockquote> Auto correct just makes me laugh. It changes sec to sex alllll the time for me  "</blockquote>



Mine changes the first letter of almost everything. Most recent examples runny to funny, say to day, Hello to jello lol. It's got where people are like what are you trying to say lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting **milfshake**:</b>" How old is your LO? I feel like they all kind of go through that phase...mostly when it comes to someone trying to jack their toys   Like a playmate or something."</blockquote>



Lol she will be 1 on 1/5

Quoting momma melissa85:" <blockquote><b>Quoting **milfshake**:</b>" How old is your LO? I feel like they all ... [snip!] ... comes to someone trying to jack their toys   Like a playmate or something."</blockquote> Lol she will be 1 on 1/5"

Oh man...she is still baby baby! Hitting and stuff like that wouldn't really start until about 18 months. Its normal, just behavior that you have to correct.

I found that age most difficult because my son was walking, doing things for himself, but its like you're in limbo of communicating, they babble at you. They express their emotions very openly, hitting, throwing...hahaha but if you correct it and show them a different way to express themselves, you'll be alright.