Quoting speaktruth2powr:" If it is court ordered they HAVE to go, regardless of whether they want to or not. Describe the lead ... [snip!] ... up? Do you talk about how you'll miss her? When she gets back, do you talk about how much you missed her when she was gone? "
the day or two before she goes I remind her and say "guess where you get to go this weekend? to your daddys house! are you excited? what do you think you'll do this time?" etc etc.
when she gets home I tell her I missed her.
I know I have to let her go, it just sucks.
he doesn't let her call home, the first two weekends she came home and was screaming and crying because her "peepee" hurt. last time she told me she didn't want to go because he was mean to her, but then on the day he was coming to get her she changed her mind.
she's said a few off things but she changes what she says so frequently that I don't know exactly what to think of it.