re: need advice.. back and forth "baby daddy"

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:</b>" i think he is depressed. he denys it tho :/"</blockquote>

That's hard because people do a lot of irrational things they dot intentionally try to do when they're depressed. Men especially won't admit to it. But often regret it later once they finally come out of it. I think you two should really have a discussion about how you see he is depressed and just be very understanding of his feelings. Then tell him how his behavior is affecting you an the kids. Depressioncan ruin a relationship and a family. I am very lucky to have a wonderful SO who stands by me in m depressive states and is willing to help me through it and get me help when I need it. Far too many times our family could have been broken because of it. But it's his willingness to stand by me and make us wok through it that has kept us together.

Quoting lolajessup:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:</b>" i think he is depressed. he ... [snip!] ... have been broken because of it. But it's his willingness to stand by me and make us wok through it that has kept us together."

he wont talk. at all. ive told him to go, get it out of his system and come back, he wont do that. he doesnt admit its about our son, doesnt admit hes depressed. just that hes done "trying" when he hasnt been trying for a long time.

he does NOT have anyone else. i know that for a fact.

you know i think he is an smurf.. its been longer than this past year of him smurfing you over multiple times..

id run run far away and get child support and let him live the life he apprently wants soooo much...

Fool me one, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.. good luck girl

Quoting ☮ Phuket:" you know i think he is an smurf.. its been longer than this past year of him smurfing you over multiple ... [snip!] ... let him live the life he apprently wants soooo much... Fool me one, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.. good luck girl"

::hugs::


...btw i didnt know you moved to thiland...  

Quoting Ailey+Lennon+Renner's Mom:" ::hugs:: ...btw i didnt know you moved to thiland...  "

: )