No I do not still visit them on Christmas. My SO is more than welcome to go over to his mothers house if he would like, but I won't go over their and neither will my children.
I don't believe in playing the game of pretending to enjoy their company, especially when they don't enjoy mine either. Seems stupid.
We're not going this year because I don't feel comfortable driving that far. But if we were, I don't think it's fair to travel to see my family who live in the same city as my in-laws and not see them.
we will visit my husband's uncle but not his mom. his mom turned into a major bitch to me and called leaving a bunch of threatening voicemails on my phone. so i refuse to go there and told him that if he goes there that it is hugely disrespectful to me.
I used to. But smurf no now. I am tired of sucking it up and being treated like smurf. And my kids won't be going either. I refuse to put them in an unhealthy situation. EVERY time they go out there they come homing running a high fever from all of the germs and smoke in the house.
I'm letting him go but we decided it was best me and our daughter didn't join. His mom undermines me on a regular basis and talks smurf about me to him and thinks he doesn't tell me and there's so much faking I can do before I'm pissed off lol trust me, I feel your pain wish it was easier.