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Quoting Peppa pig:" My son is nine months old, still nursing....and my BD is threatening to take me back to court for more ... [snip!] ... severe enough for them to deny him more time, but what kind of time does the judge usually give in this kind of situation?"

Well actually kids aren't supposed to get strapped into the carseat with their jacket on...it's really unsafe.
I dont see why they'd give him more time especially if you're nursing. You can offer that he comes over and sees him, but not takes him alone until he's not nursing anymore or eating more regular food.

Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Well actually kids aren't supposed to get strapped into the carseat with their jacket on...it's really ... [snip!] ... can offer that he comes over and sees him, but not takes him alone until he's not nursing anymore or eating more regular food."

I did not know this....suffocation hazard? what if it is a light jacket?

Quoting Peppa pig:" I did not know this....suffocation hazard? what if it is a light jacket?"

No it's because the straps aren't tight enough. H/o I'll link you

I don't see why they'd give him more time. Three days a week is pretty typical for non custodial parents. Also, coats aren't to be worn in the car seats because in the event of a crash, the coat will compress, leaving room between baby and the buckles, meaning baby can be ejected from the seat.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Peppa pig:</b>" I did not know this....suffocation hazard? what if it is a light jacket?"</blockquote>




Light jackets are usually okay, so long as the straps don't have to be loosened, however, it's still safer for the coat to cover him like a blanket. We actually keep blankets in the car for my kids.

Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Peppa pig:</b>" I did not know this....suffocation hazard? ... [snip!] ... loosened, however, it's still safer for the coat to cover him like a blanket. We actually keep blankets in the car for my kids."

Yes they're okay as long as the straps do not need to be adjusted from normal tightness.
We keep a blanket and his winter jacket in the car. He usually likes having his winter jacket over him because he uses the hood to protect his face from the sun. He can't stand the sun in his face lol

Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:" I don't see why they'd give him more time. Three days a week is pretty typical for non custodial parents. ... [snip!] ... event of a crash, the coat will compress, leaving room between baby and the buckles, meaning baby can be ejected from the seat."

I don't know why they would either....i think he is just trying to scare me

some judges will tell you if the baby is breast fed you should pump if your concerned about them getting breast milk during fathers time..

this is what i found on alot of site for typical time share for that age




Infants and Babies: Birth to Eighteen Months


Traditional Options for an Angry Divorce

• Every Saturday from 11:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m., including an afternoon nap.
• Every Saturday from 9:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m.; every Wednesday from 3:00 p.m. to 5:30 p.m., picked up at day care and returned to other parent’s home.

More Integrated Options for a Distant Divorce

• Every Saturday from 11:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m., including an afternoon nap; every Wednesday evening from 4:30 p.m. until 6:30 p.m., perhaps spending some time at the residential parent’s home.
• Every Saturday from 2:00 p.m. until 6:00 p.m.; every Monday and Wednesday from 3:00 p.m. to 5:30 p.m., picked up at day care and returned to other parent’s home.

Closely Integrated Options for a Cooperative Divorce

• Every Saturday from 11:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m., including an afternoon nap; every Monday and Wednesday evening from 4:30 p.m. until 7:30 p.m.; some contact/feeding/bedtime takes place at residential parent’s home.
• Two weekdays from 8:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m. (substituting for child care); every Saturday from 11:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m.; occasional Saturday overnights if the baby seems to tolerate them well.

since your breastfeeding they probably wont give him more time

Quoting mom2andrew&carter:" since your breastfeeding they probably wont give him more time"

not always true.. alot of moms try to use the BF excuse and alot of judges have stated either pump or give formula..

all she can do is keep documentation of everything.. and alot of time people just use the im taking you to court just get you to fold.. let him take you to court and stick to your guns

Quoting JessicaMatlock :" some judges will tell you if the baby is breast fed you should pump if your concerned about them getting ... [snip!] ... Saturday from 11:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m.; occasional Saturday overnights if the baby seems to tolerate them well. "

According to this, it sounds like he would be getting less time with the baby. Right now he gets Adam on Weds and Thurs from 4:30 to 8:30-9 and Sunday, 3:30-8:30.

I am being told that if he tries to bring me back to court, two things will happen:

Number one, the judge will see through his bs and recognize that he is more concerned with avenging me (he's constantly complaining he has to pay child support...I mean ALWAYS throws it in my face...he even referred to our son, "jokingly" as the 12,000 dollar baby.

Number two, if we cannot come to an agreement, he will receive the standard which is one day during the week and every other weekend. True or not true, does anyone know?

ive heard of it happening with babies that age.. but the tend to stick with shorter more frequent visits