re: Condoms missing...

I have heard of people wanking into condoms...

hope he's innocent and you guys work things out xx

Quoting .:ANIMAL:.:" That's why I'm giving him a chance because in all honesty he's ass enough to do stuff like that. Like today he didn't get his paycheck from work because he had it deposited into our old bank account."

Are you absolutely 100% sure that this is the truth? Like, did you see with your own eyes a deposit slip or something? Because I read through your previous post and this is a HUGE red flag to me, too. Don't even want to get into what I've been through, but basically my now-ex husband had been living a double life the entire time we'd been married. Stupid smurf like this ALWAYS happened and I never thought to question it, when it was all a part of his scheming.

Quoting Little Vine:" Are you absolutely 100% sure that this is the truth? Like, did you see with your own eyes a deposit ... [snip!] ... been married. Stupid smurf like this ALWAYS happened and I never thought to question it, when it was all a part of his scheming."

Yeah, he gave me access to his paycheck website. It's just the fact that he wrote down our old bank account info instead of the new one.

Quoting .:ANIMAL:.:" Yeah, he gave me access to his paycheck website. It's just the fact that he wrote down our old bank account info instead of the new one."

Okay, good. Still worried for you.   Please keep us posted.

I've never known any guy to use a jimmy for masturbating.....

I read all the posts and think it could go either way. You know your husband better than any of us. Just follow your instincts. I hope everything works out for you guys   keep posted! And merry Christmas  

Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" I read all the posts and think it could go either way. You know your husband better than any of us. Just ... [snip!] ... than any of us. Just follow your instincts. I hope everything works out for you guys   keep posted! And merry Christmas  "

Merry Christmas to you too hun!  

I just stumbled upon this thread while looking for something else. The only thing that has me concerned is why are there just NOW suddenly condoms missing and not one here and there in the last two years? I realize you say that he's become much cleaner since getting married, but surely there would have been more condoms missing than just these two in two years? Somebody asked before me, but this question was never answered. So why now, all of a sudden?

Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" I just stumbled upon this thread while looking for something else. The only thing that has me concerned ... [snip!] ... than just these two in two years? Somebody asked before me, but this question was never answered. So why now, all of a sudden?"

idk...he said that he heard about it from one of his friends and wanted to try it, and he said he like it the first time so he did it again. He's weird. I don't know, I guess I'm just giving him the benefit of the doubt and just hoping he's telling the truth.

Quoting .:ANIMAL:.:" idk...he said that he heard about it from one of his friends and wanted to try it, and he said he like ... [snip!] ... again. He's weird. I don't know, I guess I'm just giving him the benefit of the doubt and just hoping he's telling the truth."

I hope you figure this whole thing out soon. I don't like this coupled with the coming home smelling like other women and the hotel address on the GPS.   It all sounds juuuuust slightly too fishy to me. Especially since when you asked him about the address, he was just all "Hmmm weird"   BUT you know your husband better than I do since I'm just "Little miss internet friend #12076"  

Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" I hope you figure this whole thing out soon. I don't like this coupled with the coming home smelling ... [snip!] ... all "Hmmm weird"   BUT you know your husband better than I do since I'm just "Little miss internet friend #12076"  "

lol. Yeah, I'm hoping I know him well enough to trust him right now lol.