re: Woman punishes son publicly...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Buzz and Almond Joys momm:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Potato Dick:</b>" There were tons of thumbs down on the ... [snip!] ... issues from that...   "</blockquote> Aye! Seems like everything we do will lead to major damage in kids ."</blockquote>




Don't breathe on them they may classify that abuse as well.

We as parents can't do anything without it being classified as some sort of abuse. But the way I look at it nip it in the butt before it goes any further. I can't sit back and watch my child destroy his/her life because I'm scared of being of being told I'm abusing my child.

Quoting Andi+Andy=Marley+1:" Personally I think its a lame punishment."

How so?

Quoting GlamChic:" How humiliating that poor child is going to be teased for years to come. That's going to hunt him for ... [snip!] ... have sufficed. Poor kid I think she went to far just to be on tv. Then they wonder why children kill their parents. Smdh..."

Dang, now we're talking about murder?



I would assume kids who kill their parents are mentally ill or suffered horrible abuse at the hands of their parents.
Now I must look at statistics.

Quoting GlamChic:" How humiliating that poor child is going to be teased for years to come. That's going to hunt him for ... [snip!] ... have sufficed. Poor kid I think she went to far just to be on tv. Then they wonder why children kill their parents. Smdh..."

oh boy....

that smurf happens around here alot lol even for smurf that didnt happen at school. i mean if it works more power to them.

Some humiliation is good for children. Allows them to grow and mature knowing that there are repercussions for every action and they should learn respect, know when to give it and also how to be humble when the situation calls for it. How else will they learn to cope with it once they get it to the "real" world.

The punishment fit the crime in my opinion.

Quoting GlamChic:" How humiliating that poor child is going to be teased for years to come. That's going to hunt him for ... [snip!] ... have sufficed. Poor kid I think she went to far just to be on tv. Then they wonder why children kill their parents. Smdh..."

And a letter to the teacher and a speech to his class would've done what? I can write a letter and not mean a damn word of it and speak to a class and again not mean a word.
And to go as far as murder? Really? I highly doubt embarrassing a kid would result in him killing his mother.

I just became overwhelmingly curious about the factors that were abundant in cases where kids kill parents. These are the ones listed if anyone cares:

1. The youth is raised in a chemically dependent or other dysfunctional family2. An ongoing pattern of family violence exists in the home
3. Conditions in the home worsen, and violence escalates.
4. The youth becomes increasingly vulnerable to stressors in the home environment.
5. A firearm is readily available in the home environment.

Quoting Mrs. Potato Dick:" I just became overwhelmingly curious about the factors that were abundant in cases where kids kill parents. ... [snip!] ... increasingly vulnerable to stressors in the home environment. 5. A firearm is readily available in the home environment."

Told you there's one that cries abuse. I didn't think it would be this soon into the thread though lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mom of Tristan/Rayah +1:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Buzz and Almond Joys momm:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... I can't sit back and watch my child destroy his/her life because I'm scared of being of being told I'm abusing my child."</blockquote>




I was kissing my boy and he kissed my lips (he is 5 1/2) and someone said I will scar him for life doing that- mind you he kissed my lips

Hes old enough to know better and I think by his mother doing this she nipped his bad attitude in the butt and fast. Cant imagine he will try that crap again, I sure as hell would not.
I don't think I would have thought of this and if i would have done it, it would have just been in his class where the incident occurred but I actually think the mother did the rite thing for her son.
Kids now get away with way to much, maybe more parents should do this type of thing.

Quoting →Ebahϖ:" that smurf happens around here alot lol even for smurf that didnt happen at school. i mean if it works more power to them."

Did you see the video of the dad who saw his daughter was bad mouthing him on FB? Calling him all kinds of awful stuff. He made his own video confronting her and then took her laptop and shot it full of bullets. Then he listed the rest of her punishments. It was epic.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Potato Dick:</b>" Did you see the video of the dad who saw his daughter was bad mouthing him on FB? Calling him all kinds ... [snip!] ... confronting her and then took her laptop and shot it full of bullets. Then he listed the rest of her punishments. It was epic."</blockquote>




I loved that one!

Quoting Buzz and Almond Joys momm:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mom of Tristan/Rayah +1:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... my boy and he kissed my lips (he is 5 1/2) and someone said I will scar him for life doing that- mind you he kissed my lips"

I think it's crazy when parents are freaked out by parents kissing their newbs/infants/toddlers/kids on the lips. I couldn't imagine snuggling with DD and not giving her a few pecks.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs. Potato Dick:</b>" How so?"</blockquote>




I just don't think it would have an effect on kids. Probably wouldn't teach them anything either.