re: I was supposed to have my abortion today...

Quoting Alyssa's mommy [EBFT]:" Saw your other post, your cousin is a nosey smurf. This is a very personal decision and she had no right to tell your mom!"

Lol she's a grown ass woman who is like ten or fifteen years older than I am. And she tattled on me. My mom has no difference in what choice I make, nor does she care about my situation. It was just silly and immature for her to go and do that. Made no difference in my life but it was just dumb.

Quoting Uncle Obama's Banana:"   Well I hope you figure out what is causing it."

I mean I'm SURE its anxiety and stress. But there are just so many stresses in my life right now, who knows when it will go away. All of my issues can't be taken care of in one day unfortunately.

you do still have time for the pill.... it can be done even in second trimester (but would mean a stay in hospital and as it sounds like you are paying for your healthcare would probably be a lot more costly)

it sucks for you that it's so hard, and that you have to find money to do it! in my experience putting it off makes it harder to recover from emotionally. there was a huge difference between my 11-week one and my 9-week one. the sooner the better i know you're trying though! see if you can get people who can help you get it sorted ASAP x

good luck xx

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ҿcɧơ:</b>" No its definitely not that. He just doesn't want to be involved in the process at all. He's being a ... [snip!] ... going on to deal with that too". ...like he even has as much going on as I do. He's pissing me off without even seeing him. "</blockquote>



Oh no I didn't mean that..I just meant it would be so much easier for him to go to the damn appointment versus you not going and actually having a baby. So not fair he's bringing his feelings into this, as if its a piece of pie for you.
Definitely not a situation Someone should be in or "deal woth" alone. I wish I could help you!!

Quoting GL♣05/08/2013:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ҿcɧơ:</b>" No its definitely not that. He just ... [snip!] ... if its a piece of pie for you. Definitely not a situation Someone should be in or "deal woth" alone. I wish I could help you!!"

He's being a douche. He's not going to go with me.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ҿcɧơ:</b>" I'm about 8.5 weeks. Yes I can reschedule. I just don't want it to get so developed that it makes it ... [snip!] ... taken this long to get to this point. Idk why they just didn't send me to a different Planned Parenthood to take the pill. "</blockquote>




I took the pill at 8 weeks. I don't see why you can't. I went through pph here in wa though and they don't do it after 8 weeks. But every state is different and I don't see what the extra 5 days makes it so you can't. Your not that far along. I been through abortion 2 times. If I was there I would take you cause driving back is gonna be painful and the extra support is good to have. I really wish they could give yoh the pill so you can do this in the comfort of your home. Everything will be ok. What's meant to be is meant to be. If your strong enough to make this decission your strong enough to get through anything.

Quoting Amydb:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ҿcɧơ:</b>" I'm about 8.5 weeks. Yes I can reschedule. ... [snip!] ... ok. What's meant to be is meant to be. If your strong enough to make this decission your strong enough to get through anything."

I don't know they acted like they had to reschedule my appointment again a week later...again. Because the first time I didn't have the money. Sooo...I was 9 weeks exactly today and had to have the surgery. I wrote the story in my other thread if you wanna read it...
http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about2408789.html