re: I was supposed to have my abortion today...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ҿcɧơ:</b>" Not really. My girlfriends live out of state. "</blockquote>


I'm so sorry you are stuck. It sucks you can't do the pill if u don't mind me asking how far along are u

Quoting Ҿcɧơ:" I'm about 8.5 weeks. Yes I can reschedule. I just don't want it to get so developed that it makes it ... [snip!] ... taken this long to get to this point. Idk why they just didn't send me to a different Planned Parenthood to take the pill. "

Ok well you have a couple of more weeks before the cut off date. <3 I would make another appt and have it done then. Do you have family around?

Yeah I wouldn't be able to do adoption. Can you just reschedule? How far along are you if you know the gender?

I couldn't do adoption, either. Is there anywhere closer? I'd take a bus if I had to.

Sorry just read u r 8.5 weeks

Quoting BeccaSauraus:" Yeah I wouldn't be able to do adoption. Can you just reschedule? How far along are you if you know the gender?"

I think she is going off gut feeling...

Quoting Shannonsfirst:" but you got to get there right hun? Maybe today wasnt possible....but you know time is crucial and ... [snip!] ... a battery for your car? What options do you have? Cash before payday? Family to lend you the money?? Can you drive yourself?"

Yea they told me since I don't want the sedation I can still drive myself. But I don't want to do that...I don't want to be completely alone.
And I mean...its possible for me to get a battery for the car...but there is also the pain that I have which I don't know if its going to start affecting me more at any point...I need to go to a doctor and ask WTF is going on with that.

Quoting Ҿcɧơ:" My appointment to have a surgical abortion is today at 9:30 three hours away from my hometown. I should ... [snip!] ... I will. So I don't want to hear any "killing your baby is wrong"...its my body. My choice. My life. I still have that right. "

I'm so sorry hunny  
I'm sorry that you are having to deal with all the stress that comes with this and I'm sorry for all the stress you are having to deal with in your life.
I really hope that it all starts to work out for you soon.  
Good luck.

Quoting ℳary ℐane:" I think she is going off gut feeling..."

I'm 8.5 weeks. I know the gender because I know. I knew my daughter was a girl right away too.

Quoting Ҿcɧơ:" Yea they told me since I don't want the sedation I can still drive myself. But I don't want to do that...I ... [snip!] ... I don't know if its going to start affecting me more at any point...I need to go to a doctor and ask WTF is going on with that."

You got a lot to take care of in a short time hun. I wish you luck and hope everything comes together for you.

Quoting Ҿcɧơ:" Yea they told me since I don't want the sedation I can still drive myself. But I don't want to do that...I ... [snip!] ... I don't know if its going to start affecting me more at any point...I need to go to a doctor and ask WTF is going on with that."

If I was closer I would go with you so you wouldnt be alone. I know how that feeling is. like I said before you can talk to me anytime. I know what you are going through. I really hope that you can get this abortion. Abortion is better than the latter of option.

Reschedule your appt if possible and explain to whoever you want to go woth you you need support, someone to drive you home, and the new date so they know ahead of time. If you truly want this imo id do it sooner then later bc it might be harder when they show you the ultrasound and it looks less aluen like and more the opposite

Quoting ℳary ℐane:" I think she is going off gut feeling..."

Oh okay. That's what I was guessing. Sorry, pregnant brain fart.  

Quoting Ҿcɧơ:" Everyone keeps asking me that. Of course I have. I've been speaking with Planned Parenthood for weeks ... [snip!] ... but thats how it is, lol.)...basically I don't want to get to know my child and then not have him. (yeh I know its a him)"

I completely understand. If I was in this situation I would be going about it the same way exactly for the reasons you explained.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Trace1886:</b>" Reschedule your appt if possible and explain to whoever you want to go woth you you need support, someone ... [snip!] ... it sooner then later bc it might be harder when they show you the ultrasound and it looks less aluen like and more the opposite"</blockquote>


I'm sure she is aware...