Some advice and help please :(

If you don't like it move out. You're lucky she even let you move in tbh.

Quoting Paranya Sae-hoon:" My parents abandoned me and i live with my bf and his parents and i really don't like his mother. she ... [snip!] ... me what to do in demand and try to be the mother of it and not the grandma. i just need some guidance with this pregnancy.... "

get a job, move out= problem solved

be sure from the start that you put your foot down as "MOM" and her as "grandma" don't be afraid to speak up or move out

Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" If you don't like it move out. You're lucky she even let you move in tbh."

Yeap, this.

Quoting Nathaniel'sMom:" If you don't like it move out. You're lucky she even let you move in tbh."

I agree with above post; My mother abandoned me since a young children and you don't need or want any people in your life who's just going to drag you down.

I would first stand your ground, Tell her I'm the Mother and It's MY child, if you don't like the way i'm doing things. I'm going.

HEAD UP and SMILE

yes i want to move out but i want to try to work things out with the babys dad ........just because someone lets you move in doesn't give you the right to treat them anyway you want either. and we pay rent.

Quoting ang_turtle+3:" get a job, move out= problem solved"

 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Paranya Sae-hoon:</b>" yes i want to move out but i want to try to work things out with the babys dad ........just because someone ... [snip!] ... ........just because someone lets you move in doesn't give you the right to treat them anyway you want either. and we pay rent."</blockquote>




If you can pay rent you can move out. It's time for your BD to grow up and support his little family.

Quoting Paranya Sae-hoon:" yes i want to move out but i want to try to work things out with the babys dad ........just because someone ... [snip!] ... ........just because someone lets you move in doesn't give you the right to treat them anyway you want either. and we pay rent."

You can still work things out with the babies father and not live in the same house.

yes trust me i have a job and so does he, but he wants to save up before we move out...ive had complications with my pregnancy because of stress plus i have major depression...i blacked out a week ago and had to take two weeks off work.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Paranya Sae-hoon:</b>" yes trust me i have a job and so does he, but he wants to save up before we move out...ive had complications ... [snip!] ... with my pregnancy because of stress plus i have major depression...i blacked out a week ago and had to take two weeks off work."</blockquote>




How far along are you?

only three months

<blockquote><b>Quoting Paranya Sae-hoon:</b>" only three months"</blockquote>




You two have plenty of time to save. Save as much as you can. If your still irritated with her after the babies arrived move out. You will miss her help though.

That stress is because of the stress your mother inlaw is giving you. If you stay, your stress will stay and possible only get worse. Now do you want to risk that on your baby? I know it'scary, but you've got yo do right by you and your baby now