Quoting Katie Kepfer:" Boobook, I wasn't there, but my daughter told me, and she didn't understand. She whispered it to me when ... [snip!] ... have to hit you." I want my daughter to know Jesus loves her, I just don't want her to question the strength of my love. "
Oh wow, there never a reason for a man to hit a woman. I take it his mother was abuse growing up, because that sounds like something a woman would say who been abuse for a really long time. And I completely understand you not wanting your daughter questioning your strength of love for her. How ever you choose tell her its completely upto you. Everybody does it differently , just depends on how you feel she should know certain things do with Jesus and love you feel for her.