|When a ring that both parties are aware of is in production|
|decided you will get married but w/o announcing it to others|
|after a ring has been purchased & he has officially purposed|
|After he has purposed (but no ring yet)|
Quoting Ryloonjimama:" <blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" Eh. SO's asked me to marry him, and I asked where ... [snip!] ... Using your logic though, he shouldn't be the guy to marry... you weren't "worth" a ring the first time..."