When is your sex drive the highest? TMI warning

Mine seems to be highest during the day or in the morning...when DH is at work unfortunately. By the time the girls are in bed and everything is cleaned up we are both so tired that either he is falling asleep with his face between my legs...or I'm just not able to focus and enjoy it enough to finish in a timely manner. Its frustrating for me because I NEED that intimacy... I'm a person that thrives off of affection and a healthy sex life. Its just not ideal during the day when the girls are awake and all. Do have this problem? Have you found a way to deal with it?

Mine is highest in the morning right before he leaves for work.


I masturbate, a lot.

Mine is during the day, or when I can't sleep at night and he's fast asleep. I don't even bother waking him and just take care of it myself lol.

Probably around 1 or 2 pm.

Late at night. I was a horndog also at the beginning of my pregnancy =P

<blockquote><b>Quoting Commander Shepard:</b>" Mine is highest in the morning right before he leaves for work. I masturbate, a lot."</blockquote>

Yeah even if he would wake up early enough before work for us to have sex...our 3 year old has been sneaking into our room for the last few weeks ....

I was masturbating a lot the last month at least but it just doesn't do it for me like sex with DH does. *le sigh*

I want it ALL the time, but DH doesn't want it but once in a blue moon, and when he does want it, its around 2-3am after his gaming and our movie. So I've been turning him down lately. So I've been playing DJ for a while.. So I masturbate alot :/

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I want it ALL the time, but DH doesn't want it but once in a blue moon, and when he does want it, its ... [snip!] ... his gaming and our movie. So I've been turning him down lately. So I've been playing DJ for a while.. So I masturbate alot :/ "</blockquote>

My husband is the same as far as not needing it as often as me...he usually blames being tired from work.

Quoting I Love Dem Baybees!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I want it ALL the time, but DH doesn't ... [snip!] ... "</blockquote> My husband is the same as far as not needing it as often as me...he usually blames being tired from work."

I get that excuse too. That or, "Its too early, and I can't finish if I just woke up" (which is bullsmurf).
I guess we will have to be celibate because he can't pick a reasonable time. 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I get that excuse too. That or, "Its too early, and I can't finish if I just woke up" (which is bullsmurf). I guess we will have to be celibate because he can't pick a reasonable time. "</blockquote>

Its sad that I'm willing whenever he should want me but he acts like he can't do the same.

Quoting I Love Dem Baybees!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I get that excuse too. That or, "Its ... [snip!] ... time. "</blockquote> Its sad that I'm willing whenever he should want me but he acts like he can't do the same."

I feel your pain.   And after almost 5 years, I'm tired of waiting for him and his bad timing. So I told him that 2am is the cut off. You want sex, then get it in gear and make ME the priority, not your game. I'm not going to feel like sex if you keep putting me on the back burner. So he's been kinda pouty for the past couple days lol.
Maybe they will grow out of it?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Gizmo ♥ Bry:</b>" I feel your pain.   And after almost 5 years, I'm tired of waiting for him and his bad timing. So I ... [snip!] ... keep putting me on the back burner. So he's been kinda pouty for the past couple days lol. Maybe they will grow out of it? "</blockquote>

Good for you! Maybe he'll figure it out lol. Idk mine is 26 going on 27 in March...he needs to hit a sexual peak or something before too long lol.

Well, I can't tell I can be without sex for a long time without wanting so bad. Anytime is fine.However, When I was pregnant I was the opposite, I wanted sex all the time. So all depends on every person I guess.