Well, it's official

Had my followup today and I am officially not pregnant anymore (had m/c dec. 7th)   I tried to talk to SO about how I felt but he's not so good with talking about emotions, so he gave me a hug. When she said the tests were negative I felt like saying check again, there must be a mistake. The doctor said she doesn't know why I am still having pregnancy symptoms but that they should go away soon. It's hard knowing I've been pregnant three times but only got to hold one baby   I plan to get on a more effective form of birth control and wait until DD is a few years older to try again.
Sleep tight babies <3

So sorry, mama.
That's terrible to go through.
My thoughts are with you.

I'm sorry for your loss, mama.  

I had a missed miscarriage last year. Baby stopped growing around 7 weeks, but my uterus continued to grow and I continued to have symptoms. I didn't even know until almost 11 weeks. It was awful.

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" I'm sorry for your loss, mama.   I had a missed miscarriage last year. Baby stopped growing around ... [snip!] ... but my uterus continued to grow and I continued to have symptoms. I didn't even know until almost 11 weeks. It was awful."

Thank you both. And that must have been horrible, I am sorry.

I'm so sorry for your loss, I myself have had two miscarriages. If you need to talk or anything I'm here.....

Very sorry for your loss momma.

:'( i'm so sorry x x x

i understand how you feel i'm here for you if you need to talk xxxx

Im so sorry :-(

If you ever want to talk Pm me.. I just had a mc on the 6th. Hang in there.

Quoting Ellie Shikari:" Had my followup today and I am officially not pregnant anymore (had m/c dec. 7th)   I tried to talk ... [snip!] ... to get on a more effective form of birth control and wait until DD is a few years older to try again. Sleep tight babies <3"

I'm sorry to hear about this. Keep your chin up and take it slow. My last miscarriage before my daughter, I went in for my 2nd appointment, it was my 12 week check up, and the baby had stopped growing the day I had my first appointment. The heart rate was perfect and strong, but evidently it wasn't meant to be. My very first one, I found out I was pg when I was attempting to join the guard, got home and I was working and ended up bleeding. I was supposed to be about 11-12 weeks then too but that baby stopped forming at 6 weeks. It is super hard, I was super scared to tell anyone that I was pregnant with any my son, and my daughter. I found out I was pregnant with my son 2 weeks before what was supposed to be my due date for the first one. I found out I was pregnant with my daughter about 5-6 months after the 3rd child was supposed to be born. It still sucks and I still think "what if they did make it?" I don't think I will ever not think about it. I hope it gets easier for you with time. It isn't ever easy to deal with. It always seemed like the less I tried or really thought about it, the faster I actually got pregnant. 1st baby was unexpected lol, my son was unexpected, tried for the 3rd, and gave up about a month before finding out I was pregnant with my daughter, actually ended up getting a tattoo exactly one week before finding out about her lol. Best of wishes