Quoting Ellie Shikari:" Had my followup today and I am officially not pregnant anymore (had m/c dec. 7th) I tried to talk ... [snip!] ... to get on a more effective form of birth control and wait until DD is a few years older to try again. Sleep tight babies <3"
I'm sorry to hear about this. Keep your chin up and take it slow. My last miscarriage before my daughter, I went in for my 2nd appointment, it was my 12 week check up, and the baby had stopped growing the day I had my first appointment. The heart rate was perfect and strong, but evidently it wasn't meant to be. My very first one, I found out I was pg when I was attempting to join the guard, got home and I was working and ended up bleeding. I was supposed to be about 11-12 weeks then too but that baby stopped forming at 6 weeks. It is super hard, I was super scared to tell anyone that I was pregnant with any my son, and my daughter. I found out I was pregnant with my son 2 weeks before what was supposed to be my due date for the first one. I found out I was pregnant with my daughter about 5-6 months after the 3rd child was supposed to be born. It still sucks and I still think "what if they did make it?" I don't think I will ever not think about it. I hope it gets easier for you with time. It isn't ever easy to deal with. It always seemed like the less I tried or really thought about it, the faster I actually got pregnant. 1st baby was unexpected lol, my son was unexpected, tried for the 3rd, and gave up about a month before finding out I was pregnant with my daughter, actually ended up getting a tattoo exactly one week before finding out about her lol. Best of wishes