never mind

 . Thanks.

Why are you even trying with him?

Did he not use you for batting practice? Break your nose and ribs? Cause you to miscarry?

How the smurf could you ever let someone like that around you child

When your kid is born, I would file for FULL custody and a restraining order for when BD gets out

Why is he in jail?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" Why are you even trying with him? Did he not use you for batting practice? Break your nose and ribs? ... [snip!] ... like that around you child When your kid is born, I would file for FULL custody and a restraining order for when BD gets out"</blockquote>




Well its his daughter too he can take me to court and get alot more than a little supervised visit 1 day a week. I have no proof of anything. A judge would dismiss it expecially since hes been going to counciling and anger management. Trust me i have spoken to a lawyer about it. Also im pretty sure i didnt ask you what you would do or to comment about any of that... im doing what keeps my daughter with me. EOD.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥ PUFFIN ♥:</b>" Why is he in jail?"</blockquote>




Stupid smurf he did before i got pregnant.

Quoting Gemmas mommy!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" Why are you even trying with him? Did he ... [snip!] ... pretty sure i didnt ask you what you would do or to comment about any of that... im doing what keeps my daughter with me. EOD."

Whatever you say momma

All of your medical records is proof enough of the abuse. What are you gonna do WHEN he starts beating the kid?

I would be fighting tooth and nail to keep the kid away from him.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" Whatever you say momma All of your medical records is proof enough of the abuse. What are you gonna ... [snip!] ... What are you gonna do WHEN he starts beating the kid? I would be fighting tooth and nail to keep the kid away from him."</blockquote>




What medical records the only x ray i got done was of ny nose and i told them i broke it in a 4 wheeling accident and i never went to the dr to confirm pregnancy i took a home test. And pkease tell me how he would do that to ger with supervised visits 1 time a week. I tust my laywers advice over yours kay? So im pretty sure i never asked your opinion on this subject so keep it to yourself

Quoting Gemmas mommy!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" Whatever you say momma All of your medical ... [snip!] ... I tust my laywers advice over yours kay? So im pretty sure i never asked your opinion on this subject so keep it to yourself"

Pretty sure posting in here is asking for people to comment on smurf and their opinions. Just saying..

Quoting Gemmas mommy!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Kelly&Coralie:</b>" Whatever you say momma All of your medical ... [snip!] ... I tust my laywers advice over yours kay? So im pretty sure i never asked your opinion on this subject so keep it to yourself"

I'm going to go with you being dumb for not reporting him and protecting him. Hopefully he doesn't hurt your child.

<blockquote><b>Quoting kslack:</b>" Pretty sure posting in here is asking for people to comment on smurf and their opinions. Just saying.."</blockquote>




Well it would hacw been if i even said anything about that! Which i didnt.

<blockquote><b>Quoting sταrry skies:</b>" I'm going to go with you being dumb for not reporting him and protecting him. Hopefully he doesn't hurt your child."</blockquote>




Well obviously you dont know anything about abusive realtionships oh and nothing about mine. These things she was talking about happened over a year ago.a long time Before i was pregnant with Gemma... think what you want because i really dobt give a smurf i dont have to prove anything to you people because you know nothing of what your talking about...

As someone who has been in abusive relationships I have to say some of these women have valid opinions. If he did this stuff most women wouldn't let him near the child. My only advice is be careful. It's easy to believe they changed because of counceling and anger management but it's not always the case. Do what's best for you and your daughter and don't trust him till he EARNS it.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tristan Carman:</b>" As someone who has been in abusive relationships I have to say some of these women have valid opinions. ... [snip!] ... anger management but it's not always the case. Do what's best for you and your daughter and don't trust him till he EARNS it."</blockquote>




Thats the plan. Its just that i have no proof i cant keep him from her a judge wouldnt allow it. He has to have supervised visits my dad and mom are the ones supervising it. Im taking all the precautions to make sure shes safe. Hes alot different now that hes clean he was a drug addict. I understand these females opinions i do. But i rather give him 1 visit a week thats supervised than what a judge would give him hell he could all together take her from me if he wanted or ge could try... i have to keep her safe and this alot safer than that.