having abortion tomorrow

I'm having an abortion tomorrow (12/19/12)
I'm 6 weeks along, I'm feeling very scared and nervous. I've been crying for the last three days. I know I'm making the right decision. I'm just so upset I have to go through this. Never in a million years did I think this would happen to me. My now ex, who I have a 3 year old with, got me pregnant on purpose. He did it without my knowledge or consent. He confessed to doing it. It makes me so angry that he didn't think about the consequences.
Part of me doesn't want to go through with the abortion. Just knowing I have a little baby growing inside me, I cant bare to go through with it. But I just have to keep reminding myself I am making the right choice. I wish I had someone close to talk about this with, and to give me some advice, but sadly I don't.

im so sorry, but, how did he do it without your consent or permission?

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" im so sorry, but, how did he do it without your consent or permission?"

 

You'll do okay. And how did he get you pregnant on purpose?.. why were you not on birth control or making sure he had a condom? :S

I'm sorry mama. I have been there. Feel free to PM me if you need someone to talk to. Good luck.

*hugs*

Don't do it yet if you have doubts.. It's something you can never take back.

I'm sorry Momma.

Best wishes.

<blockquote><b>Quoting HotMom21ERF:</b>" im so sorry, but, how did he do it without your consent or permission?"</blockquote>




 
And more importantly, why? Does e want to be with you again?

Damn that sucks, i am sorry you have to go through this.
Have you thought about doing a pro and cons list to help reassure yourself your doing the right thing?

Your the one that had sex with him obviosuly without protection, So you did kinda give him consent and permission. And im sorry you have to go through that. Good luck

Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" Your the one that had sex with him obviosuly without protection, So you did kinda give him consent and permission. And im sorry you have to go through that. Good luck"

You don't know protection wasn't involved. Guys have been known to smurf with condoms.

I'm sorry you have to go through this.  

I'm sorry you have to go through this

Best wishes

If you have doubts, dont do it. A friend had doubts but did it and she regrets it everyday, it is painful to watch her go through what she is going through. I am sorry you are going through it, but you need to be certain about your decision.

Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" You don't know protection wasn't involved. Guys have been known to smurf with condoms."

Well then she should have been on BC if she didnt want to be pregnant again. Thats the only way you can be sure that you are protecting yourself, and even then it doesnt always work.
Either way it doesnt matter now. Hopefully she does what is best for her.