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re: having abortion tomorrow

posted 18th Dec
*hugs*

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I'm due December 9th (it's a surprise), have 1 child & live in Oslo, Norway
posted 18th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):</b>" Well then she should have been on BC if she didnt want to be pregnant again. Thats the only way you ... [snip!] ... yourself, and even then it doesnt always work. Either way it doesnt matter now. Hopefully she does what is best for her."</blockquote>




Or she can have an abortion and you can stfu?
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I have 1 child & live in Beverly Hills, California
posted 18th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting My boys = My life:</b>" Don't do it yet if you have doubts.. It's something you can never take back."</blockquote>




After a certain point in the pregnancy you can't take not having an abortion back either. OP if you know it's something you have to do and you've weighed out all the options I'm sure you will be able to come to terms with it <3 I'm sorry that you have to go through this, it's very sad but you need to look out for yourself and your 3 year old.


Best of luck!
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I have 1 child & live in Beverly Hills, California
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posted 18th Dec
Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" Your the one that had sex with him obviosuly without protection, So you did kinda give him consent and permission. And im sorry you have to go through that. Good luck"

You don't know the back story so you can't accuse her of giving permission, what if he poked holes in the condom without her knowing?

You really shouldnt start drama in the "abortion survivors" section, this is where people go to discuss something painful and get support, not judgements and drama.
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I live in Logan, Utah
posted 18th Dec
you cant assume she wasnt on BC i had a friend who boyfriend was swapping her pill for an antihistamine
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in United Kingdom
posted 18th Dec
Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" Well then she should have been on BC if she didnt want to be pregnant again. Thats the only way you ... [snip!] ... yourself, and even then it doesnt always work. Either way it doesnt matter now. Hopefully she does what is best for her."

Guys can smurf with BC.
quotesmurfs?
I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Tennessee
posted 18th Dec
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):</b>" Well then she should have been on ... [snip!] ... matter now. Hopefully she does what is best for her."</blockquote> Or she can have an abortion and you can stfu?"

  
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I'm due August 31st (a girl) & live in Bat Cave, North Carolina
posted 18th Dec
Quoting Brat ✖ Status:" You don't know the back story so you can't accuse her of giving permission, what if he poked holes in ... [snip!] ... "abortion survivors" section, this is where people go to discuss something painful and get support, not judgements and drama."

I didnt actually i stated that im sorry she has to go through this. Im not the one starting drama you guys are. I said that to be 100% sure that your protecting yourself we as woman need to be doing something not trusting that guys will wear a condom and not mess with it(which is totally nuts) but i guess they do it. I said i was sorry, and that i hope she doesnt what is best for her.
So maybe you should stop starting drama!
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I'm due July 17th (it's a surprise), have 2 kids & live in Alberta
posted 18th Dec

Quoting HotMom21ERF:" im so sorry, but, how did he do it without your consent or permission?"


I completely understand its my fault too I guess for "letting it happen" as most would think. Our form of birth control was the pull out method, and it was my stupid dumb mistake for believeing he was pulling out. He told me he was counting the days after I had my period to try to get me pregnant.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Covina, California
posted 18th Dec
<blockquote><b>Quoting Legendary Amanda:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):</b>" Well then she should have been on ... [snip!] ... matter now. Hopefully she does what is best for her."</blockquote> Or she can have an abortion and you can stfu?"</blockquote>




Yep, agree.
People quit being morons. The questions are unnecessary.

Just support.
Good luck OP!
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I live in Colorado
posted 18th Dec
Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" I didnt actually i stated that im sorry she has to go through this. Im not the one starting drama you ... [snip!] ... they do it. I said i was sorry, and that i hope she doesnt what is best for her. So maybe you should stop starting drama!"

You have no right to be guilt tripping her over such a harsh decision she is making. She is in way more than enough emotional pain and this statement is completely unnecessary. What's she going to do? Get a time machine now that you've made your speech?

God forbid you trust your SO. Or She could have even been date raped.
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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Tennessee
posted 18th Dec
Quoting Squid Kid:" Guys can smurf with BC."

apparently they can smurf with anything. Thats pretty bad if thats the case. I wouldnt be letting my BC out of my sight. That would be terrible.
quotesmurfs?
I'm due July 17th (it's a surprise), have 2 kids & live in Alberta
posted 18th Dec
Quoting Skylee's Mommy♥:" "
i see... well good luck hun i wish you the best
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I'm TTC since April '13, have 1 child & live in Kentucky
posted 18th Dec
Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" Well then she should have been on BC if she didnt want to be pregnant again. Thats the only way you ... [snip!] ... yourself, and even then it doesnt always work. Either way it doesnt matter now. Hopefully she does what is best for her."

That is way too JUDGMENTAL and this is the Abortion Survivors forum. Take your crap elsewhere.
OP do what you need to do, but don't do it with regrets, hugs, and best wishes.
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I'm due September 16th, have 1 child & live in Texas
posted 18th Dec
Quoting *Lindsey*(10 weeks):" I didnt actually i stated that im sorry she has to go through this. Im not the one starting drama you ... [snip!] ... they do it. I said i was sorry, and that i hope she doesnt what is best for her. So maybe you should stop starting drama!"

Or maybe you should realize that the only way of 100% protecting yourself is abstinence.

There is no "drama" here.
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I'm due August 31st (a girl) & live in Bat Cave, North Carolina
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