Friends with benefits lol

How would you define this? I see a lot of different responses and i'm curious about what people think lol.

I see it as you have a friend and you casually have sex? Lol

somebody you smurf no strings attached

Smurf buddy

Friends who smurf. No strings attached.

Quoting bloopbloop♥™:" I see it as you have a friend and you casually have sex? Lol"

Yeah this is how I see it too lol. I see people saying things like they only smurf that one person when you have a friend with benefits. Isn't the point of a friend with benefits is that your not tied down to just one person? That's how I saw it anyways..lol

Quoting Nova and Nessa's Momma:" Yeah this is how I see it too lol. I see people saying things like they only smurf that one person when ... [snip!] ... Isn't the point of a friend with benefits is that your not tied down to just one person? That's how I saw it anyways..lol"

Yup, thats exactly what it is. You aren't tied down, thats the whole point.

Someone who smurfs you with no commintment or respect. Pretty much like a whore but without getting paid vice versa. Sorry for been harsh but I dont see it it any other way.

Quoting Nova and Nessa's Momma:" Yeah this is how I see it too lol. I see people saying things like they only smurf that one person when ... [snip!] ... Isn't the point of a friend with benefits is that your not tied down to just one person? That's how I saw it anyways..lol"

Well if that were the case then they would technically be dating. LOL

Quoting Nova and Nessa's Momma:" Yeah this is how I see it too lol. I see people saying things like they only smurf that one person when ... [snip!] ... Isn't the point of a friend with benefits is that your not tied down to just one person? That's how I saw it anyways..lol"

I see that a lot, too. A lot of people I know don't think people should be smurfing multiple people, even if you're single. I wouldn't smurf multiple men, lol.

Quoting bloopbloop♥™:" Well if that were the case then they would technically be dating. LOL"

Yeah I saw another FWB post and someone said:
"If you're going to have a FWB, they shouldn't be screwing other women"

Uhh?? Lol

Quoting ***BGLICIOUS****:" Someone who smurfs you with no commintment or respect. Pretty much like a whore but without getting paid vice versa. Sorry for been harsh but I dont see it it any other way."

Yeah, except you're getting what you want too. Whores want money, someone who wants a smurf buddy, wants sex.

I see FWB as sex without the relationship commitment. You only sleep with that one person but you have the freedom to find someone to date without the commitment to the FWB

Quoting ***BGLICIOUS****:" Someone who smurfs you with no commintment or respect. Pretty much like a whore but without getting paid vice versa. Sorry for been harsh but I dont see it it any other way."

Yeah, that's the point with no commitment, but it's kind of rude to assume that they don't respect you or that you don't respect them   I have a FWB and we both respect each other. And I am definitely no whore.

Quoting ***BGLICIOUS****:" Someone who smurfs you with no commintment or respect. Pretty much like a whore but without getting paid vice versa. Sorry for been harsh but I dont see it it any other way."

A whore really? Smh. Some people just want sex & don't want a relationship...I don't see anything wrong with it...some people are more focused on other things in life & would just like someone they can have fun with here & there.