Could you do this?

Would you ever let your ex's new lady, come to Christmas at your house, to watch your kids open presents? Why or why not? ( Speaking as if they don't get them on Christmas Day at all).


* Obviously, the kids are mutual between you and your ex. Lol.

Probably not. I guess it really depends on the situation.

What hell no.lol

Not one as new as your ex's.

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" Not one as new as your ex's."

This is hypothetical lol. But how long would be long enough for your to consider this.

If your kids are around her anyway then yea

If she has been in the family a few months a year, then maybe.

Probably not though, i'm a freak.

NOPE I am selfish that way...lol

Depends on how long they have been together. If it's a NEW new lady, smurf no.

But BD's been with his gf for over 3 years so I guess I would.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:</b>" This is hypothetical lol. But how long would be long enough for your to consider this. "</blockquote>




Six months to.a year or more, if I liked her.

Quoting 3rdxsacharm:" NOPE I am selfish that way...lol"

I don't have to deal with this yet, because the kids are going with their dad Christmas eve (a few hours), and a couple hours on Christmas Day.

If DH and I ever got divorced and he was with someone for a long time or remarried. AND if that person wasn't a complete bitch, then maybe I would think about it.

Nope. And not ever.

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Penises 3:Vaginas 1:</b>" This is hypothetical lol. But ... [snip!] ... how long would be long enough for your to consider this. "</blockquote> Six months to.a year or more, if I liked her."

I actually have NO problems with his new lady. At all. She's very nice, very well spoken, and she's very "okay" with me and him having to be around each other. But it's only been about a monthish so I know that can change.

nope, not unless DH and I were divorced for awhile. Like years down the line. I'd want to be at the stage where we could be at least civil, maybe friends, but not physically, emotionally, sexually attracted to each other whatsoever.