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I have gained so much weight after having two kids. I averaged 120 before I got with my husband and then just sort of ballooned after that so to speak. I want to get back to that but it is extremely hard to do. I am trying to love my body for what it is but it is still hard when I was smaller before. I am 5 months PP from my second and have 20lbs to go to my goal but I don't think I will ever get back to that.

I think that you need to try to find ways to like your body, like keeping up with a workout routine. You have to be willing to change the way you are doing things now to get a new result, IMO. Besides, you are 105 pounds, the only way you are going to tighten your body or tone it in any way is through exercising.

<blockquote><b>Quoting K&T:</b>" I think that you need to try to find ways to like your body, like keeping up with a workout routine. ... [snip!] ... IMO. Besides, you are 105 pounds, the only way you are going to tighten your body or tone it in any way is through exercising."</blockquote>




No no no...I'm close to 120 now I do believe. 105 was before I got pregnant. IMO I could lose about 10 pounds and be happy.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Love = Moco and Bubba:</b>" I have gained so much weight after having two kids. I averaged 120 before I got with my husband and then ... [snip!] ... before. I am 5 months PP from my second and have 20lbs to go to my goal but I don't think I will ever get back to that. "</blockquote>




I don't feel like I'll ever make it back to what I use to be. If I could just get closer to what I use to be I think I'd feel a little better about myself.
But you're only 20lbs away, that's not bad. But they say the left few pounds are the hardest & I feel like that's why I might be having a hard time. Idk.

Quoting April♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting K&T:</b>" I think that you need to try to find ways to like ... [snip!] ... No no no...I'm close to 120 now I do believe. 105 was before I got pregnant. IMO I could lose about 10 pounds and be happy."

Lol well whatever weight you are at, there is nothing you can do to fix it but eating properly and exercising. It's the unfortunate truth.

<blockquote><b>Quoting K&T:</b>" Lol well whatever weight you are at, there is nothing you can do to fix it but eating properly and exercising. It's the unfortunate truth."</blockquote>




This is very true. I know the food won't be a problem because I enjoy healthy foods. I just need motivation to work out. Haha.
I guess I'm more worried letting my thoughts about myself get the best of me no matter what weight I am. :/

Quoting April♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Love = Moco and Bubba:</b>" I have gained so much weight after ... [snip!] ... that's not bad. But they say the left few pounds are the hardest & I feel like that's why I might be having a hard time. Idk."

haha exactly! I still have a few months 9months to gain it 9 months to take it off but I just want to wake up and be at that goal already. I have been trying for two weeks and haven't lost a pound. I drink water, I limit the junk food and have been trying to do zumba work outs every other day though I probably can do more to exercise I don't have the motivation when I am stuck at home with my boys all day.

Quoting April♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting K&T:</b>" Lol well whatever weight you are at, there is nothing ... [snip!] ... to work out. Haha. I guess I'm more worried letting my thoughts about myself get the best of me no matter what weight I am. :/"

Well, I can't speak for you personally, but I went from being 115 pre pregnancy to 220 pp, and when I lost all the weight, and then starting seeing definition in my stomach and legs again, I really started feeling amazing about myself and how hard I had worked! Maybe when you start seeing changes in your body, your self image will also change!   Good luck!!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Love = Moco and Bubba:</b>" haha exactly! I still have a few months 9months to gain it 9 months to take it off but I just want to ... [snip!] ... other day though I probably can do more to exercise I don't have the motivation when I am stuck at home with my boys all day. "</blockquote>




Yeah see I'm a sahm I feel like I have the time to do it, I'm just too lazy. But you're right you do still have time. I have ran out of time a long time ago. My son is about to be 3. Lol. Atleast you have a good routine though. I worked out for 3 weeks 30 minutes a day 3 to 5 days.a week. I want to go back to that. I mean it's 30 minutes not that long to have.a rocking body. Lol.

<blockquote><b>Quoting K&T:</b>" Well, I can't speak for you personally, but I went from being 115 pre pregnancy to 220 pp, and when ... [snip!] ... and how hard I had worked! Maybe when you start seeing changes in your body, your self image will also change!   Good luck!!"</blockquote>




Thank you hun! & congrats on losing weight. I know the feeling had to be amazing to see your body differently again, and being able to do it had to also feel pretty awesome.